The Need To Please

When I'm truly in love with a man, I'm quite submissive. I'm nurturing by nature. From my plants to little animals, I love to take care of people and the man I'm with is no exception. I keep a lot of these feelings to myself. I would never reveal to my girlfriends that I used to give my now ex, foot massages and wash him when he was in the tub soaking. I loved cooking for him, doing his laundry and cleaning up his apartment. I genuinely loved taking care of him.

As much as I love to give, I have a difficult time receiving. I'm learning to allow others to take care of me. When your as loving and nurturing as I am people take advantage of you, and I've experienced this with quite a few of the men in my life. Relationships are about give and take. I'm single now and as much as I love taking care of a man, I would like the same in return. I don't think there is anything wrong with me wanting that. If I meet the right man, one that loves, supports and protects me, there is nothing I wouldn't do for him.
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1 Response May 21, 2012

There is ABSOULUTY nothing wrong with being a submissive woman "or man" I think that you are looking for a man that understands that your submission is a gift to be cherished and not to be taken for granted or used as a doormat...... I have a submissive girlfriend and she cares for me in everyway possible. We live in a Dominate/submissive relationship and both are happy, but I am fully aware of the gift she has given me and I cherish her for it.