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Want To Become A Better Muslim

Study the deen.

Don’t overburden yourself, but don’t underestimate yourself either.

If you know you are capable of something, do it.

Allaah will help you along the way. ‘Allaah will not change the condition of a people until they first change it themselves.’

Read. Read. Read.

The more you read, the more likely you are to change.

Listen to Islamic lectures/audios/videos.

Talk less.

It might sound simple, but the less you talk, the more you listen.

The more you listen the more you are observing.

The more you are observing, the clearer it becomes to what exactly you need to change and how to change it.

Lower your gaze.

Sound silly?

Lowering the gaze prevents you from extracurricular thoughts that may fog the mind.

The purer the vision, the purer the mind, the cleaner the heart.

Don’t tell anyone about changing, just keep it to yourself.

Be sincere.

Don’t even tell yourself you’re changing, just change some bad habits.

Stop complaining about how changing is hard.

Nothing is hard, it’s all about how much you let it overburden you and how much you’re willing to work on it.

Pray the night prayers.

If you want to change, ask for the strength necessary to change.

Focus on you.

Are YOU changing your bad habits?

Don’t think about what Clarese or Amina is doing.

Do YOU first.

Take it one day at a time.

Don’t think ‘oh, I’ll change forever and I’ll never do this again!’ that alone makes the shaytaan work that much harder against your weak nafs.

Just think about not doing it for that day.

You’re not even guaranteed a tomorrow so focus on the now.

Go to bed and ask yourself: Did I accomplish my goal today?

If not, intend on doing it tomorrow and accomplish it.

Make repentance your everything.

Always always always repent.

Never lose faith.

Never lose heart.

Shaytaan wants you to feel so ashamed that you don’t repent, when Allaah loves those who turn to Him in repentance.

Walking around?

Seek forgiveness.


Seek forgiveness.

Whatever you do, make it a habit to always seek forgiveness anytime and everywhere.

You never know when Allaah will accept it from you. & never say to yourself “I wish I was a better Muslim”

no. Become it.

Do it.

Make duaa that you become so.

That is all.
best of luck!

sunshines333 sunshines333 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 31, 2012

Your Response


After I start reading something seriously and concentrating on the articles that are worth, I found that, I have a lot of stuff to complete in a very less span of time…I wish “Insha’Allah” I may have infinite time to complete all of them.

I love your inspiration and gift of faith. Yes, repentance and self forgiveness is so important. Most of all I'm glad I'm your friend

thank you so much for such a nice comment!hope this repentance would be easy for all of us!may Allah forgive us!blessings.sunshines!

I will inshAllah. ...... may Allah put all of us on sirate mustaqim........ one of the best readings.... may Allah give u more strenght and power. and forgive all our sins..ameen.


This is the best thing i have read so far here <3 :')

thank you for such appreciation!jazakAllah!blessings.sunshines!


thank u!blessings.sunshines!

My recommendation is tell your brotherhood in the middle eastern world to stop fighting over disagreements and distorted ideas that stem from 6000 years ago. Let us not forget the crusades as well that are about 900 yrs. Until you give up the hate against infidels only then will islam be of some value to anyone.

i would love to spread this msg of love all over!
and i pray tht may those people who are spreading hate on the name of islam become aware of true doctrine of islam as islam does nt allow hatred towards human beings bcz of the belief they carry!but yeah all parties should respect the beliefs of each other!

I will too INSHALLAH, JazakaALLAH, may God give us hidayah.

in sha Allah!jazak Allah!

I will Insha'Allah..!

in sha Allah!thank u for reading and rating up!blessings.sunshines!