Wrong Chick

OK so here it is, I have been with the mother of my child for 4 years that of which only the first year meant anything. we have a 3 year old son and he is the best thing that could have ever happened to me. But Ashonti dominque williams (my baby mama) is a very spiteful person. Not to mention she lies a lot. three of the four years we were together she cheated with guys that actually lives on the same street as her. She constantly put our son on the back burner to go out and be with all sorts of different guys that she brings around my son. I even caught a lie she wrote on facebook about me kicking her out, taking the keys, and not supporting our child. For one I live with my parents and so does she. Two we were never married or engaged, and three I have always been there for my son.The story gets worse she even got into doing ***** and having people record her doing sexual acts, which I have pics of. And African american women wonder Why black guys doesn't want anything to do with them.
remykidd remykidd
1 Response Jan 19, 2013

I'm very sorry that this is happening to you. I know how you feel. My ex is one the most spiteful women out there(she's white by the way) and loves nothing more than to put me through hell. I'm with a black woman right now and she's the most wonderful person in my eyes. Race has nothing to do with how a person is. Believe me, all the white girls I been with were psychotic. (Thank god I didn't have children with them. Anyways to my point, I'm not going to sugar coat it for you. You sir are in for a battle of your life. Your sons well being is put on the line because let's face it. Children mean more than anything else. The best thing for you to do is get a job and start paying child support. If she hasn't already filed child support try to do it yourself or antagonize her into doing so. Establish visitation rights as soon as possible. I just got that feeling she would try to run away with your child. Which is illegal by the way. Then if you can, build up a case against her as far as being a good mom. If you choose to go the route of custody, you should keep this in mind:
Make sure you can prove that you can raise your child. Living in a house, having a job, staying drug free and sober. Paying child support is gonna help you a long way. Remember its all about facts. You need to be able to prove that she's unfit. Remember, she's the mother of your child so she has to support your son too. Not just you. Have her drug tested too, yours and hers character will be questioned so stay squeeky clean as possible. Its gonna be a very long fight with her but if you stay persistent and vigilante. You'll come out looking better than her.