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I Am Shard

I Want to Transition but i am shard of losing ever owe i for care about so for now i will gated info about Transition. when i move out i will staet the Transition into become the woman i was post to be.
soonagirl soonagirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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I've lived for decades in denial.<br />
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Right now, you are only deceiving those who you love and love you. <br />
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If they love you, they will accept you. How can one hate you for being yourself?<br />
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Before you transition though, speak to those you want to know. They will be more upset with you for not sharing your thoughts and concerns with them than any shock from the transition would cause. <br />
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Think about how you would feel if the situations were reversed. Would you like it if someone you cared about didn't trust you with such information.<br />
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Tell them, you will find that reality is far less horrible than that which we can evnision in our frightened minds.

wow what a dilema.I personally think that you should go ahead and do it.no it will not be easy.nobody ever said it would be.but to not be yourself to not be you.no I say no isay.because you have to be you.you have to be you.no matter what it cost.I speak from experence.I am gay and when Icame out yes I lost some of my friends but know that I am out I wouldn't have it any other way.goo d luck to you post again let us know hows it going..