If You Can Get Her to Try a Strap-on, By All Means Enjoy

Although men can wear a strap-on, not sure I've had a fantasy about wearing one.  Now, getting "her" to wear one, thats a totally different subject, and one that I fully support.  I think one of the most important processes in this, is in selection of a comfortable, for her to wear, harness.   At first trial my pegging partner tried your run of the mill black leather panty style harnesses with two straps running across the back side.  It was very uncomfortable for her, thus she wasn't able to enjoy the experience as much as we'd hoped (oh holy hell did I enjoy it though :) ).  After this mess, we spent some serious time, being more comfortable and all, looking around for harnesses.  We settled on a "boy shorts" style harness, much better for her = much longer pleasure for me!  

Next was getting her to move with predictability, rhythm and unison.  Allowing her to feel the power of the controller (if only she were a natural dominate) yet the understand you just ram away without prepping the battlegrounds first.  With that, was a serious of toys, different *****'s, some "average" size, and then larger.  All the toys have some kind of ribbing, veins, bulges etc., for maximum stimulation.  Included in the list of goodies, plenty of lubricant.  I like the anal ease as slightly numbs the initial penetration, which helps me to relax and take in more pleasure.  Gloves were also on the list of things to have ready, yep, a goal was for her to fist me as well, and we finally succeeded after only a few practice rounds.  

For both, timing is a part of the play.  Sometimes I just don't feel like much anal playtime, so if she is in the mood, I recommend a smaller toy and tend to prefer to be on my back with her in the missionary position.  If however I'm relaxed, had my gin-n-juice, or whatnot and feeling froggie, I've been known to prep the bedroom, laying out the towel (good indicator for her that I want some anal playtime), and select normally a "large" ***** accompanied by the MONSTER (Rambone), gloves, often hook the swing up in our room as well.  In that scenario, she will toss my precious *** around the room like I'm a 2bit ***** and I love it.  When she wears the MONSTER, it literally hangs down to the bottom of her knee or farther!  In our best, I've taken it down to within an inch or so of the base.  One of her favorite toys for me is the Manrammer, she likes having the handle rather than the pressure of the harness on her hips, I don't mind, and as she discovered, I like the handle too!  


The avatar used for this topic itself is quite stimulating!  Enough rambling for now, however I'm game for discussion on this topic anytime.

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36-40, M
Feb 24, 2009