Wife Here

enjoy it, your husband loves you enough to share you

Wife here is also Filipina and age 40. We have been swinging for some four years and it has reinforced our marriage. Do not be afraid to try and allow yourself to enjoy. It will become more natural with increased experiences and time.

I am sure by this time you are engage in it and enjoying it like my wife, hello there honey

the first you should do is to stand infront of the mirror wearing nothing and see how great you are. Then try walking around naked and if you felt something that is unusual that is good. It will be the first step to gain GUTS.

Love to know the details and how you enjoyed your getting shared and your hubby watching...

It is certainely a great fun ...Go for it and share us that experience.

Go try it just take it slow! Have fun

my girl too has been having troubles with my desires

if the thought of doing it makes you happy, you shoulf try it but make sure you take your time and pick the right male, being your first time you will want to make sure it is good and you will want to do it again

My thoughts (for whatever they are worth):
1) you should not cave-in to something that you are not comfortable with
2) you husband should not be applying more pressure if you tell him to stop
3) if you *do* decide that it is okay then you need to be in control of just what you are "okay" with....
4) approach with caution and make certain that your husband is fully accepting of each step (although IMHO you should still be the one calling the shots).
anyway... dem's my thoughts...

go for it youll enjoy it.

nothing to confused about, my wife can play with you while we enjoy it!!

hmmmm....Try it, you ll love it

It is a very exciting time sooo hot have seen my wife ****** many times absolutely thrilling (-:

Hmm....it was fall, I believe and we went over to a friends house. His name is Mike. He has the good old boy domineer, very humble, and he was very.... amateur :-) I was the first women that made him *** while sucking him off, and apparently I set a new standard for him. That's an amazing feeling.



But, back to topic, we chatted for a little bit on his porch. My husband and Mike shared stories as I listened, and agreed to what my husband was saying. I made my comments about Mikes stories with the girls he had been with recently up in Boston :-) Country boys love us Boston girls hehe!



Mike joked about his hay loft in his barn. And I suddenly, felt the urge to get dirty in the hayloft. I looked at my husband and grinned, and he said to Mike, well...don't let my wife wait. Mike lead to the barn, and up to the hayloft. He laid a blanket down, and I got down on my knees in front of them and my husband, intrigued me to suck them off. Mike was very excited, and my husband liked the idea of an man enjoying his wife. My husband, helped him and guided him on how to do things and I laid there enjoying every minute of it.



It isn't the most exciting store...but, if you do decide to have sex with another man, like the others say communicate your feelings about how you want things to happen. Another thing, a man would love to see a women with another man,or women. But, once that women is that mans wife, things could be different with in the situation. I'm sure your husband is aware of his feelings, and you are getting more comfortable with how you both feel :-). This is something that I have learned that you cannot rush. I wish you the best of luck!

Leonore said "What is it that you guys like about having your wife/gf have sex with another man, or several men?"

Interesting question for cuck* as well or for therapist

No body can give the right answer it came from inside men. Soon or later can emerge at teh opposite site many men are afraid to be cheated and this be very big issue for them.

Honey69 u both can star with innocent game go to bar seat separated and u flirt kiss or dance with a cute guy as u prefer and ask to ur hubby how they feel about. this way yourself wil be exploring ur own feeling

These are all good suggestions, but I don't agree he will want to be with other women. In the ten years we have been swinging or having me be the "hotwife." he only wanted to be with one other woman and that was because he thought he had to seduce here BEFORE she was brought into the "fold." The next step was having her watch me suck off my black lover's big **** BEFORE he confessed that I was actually his wife. She then admitted she would love to try my black lover once. After that, she was hooked and joined our group.

Why not choose a relative stranger and both get to know him over a short time? When both of you are comfortable with the choice, go for it. By slowing down the process both of you will also have the time to contemplate whether or not to proceed. A friend is good, but has to be lived with in the future, regardless of the outcome.

do it with a total stranger, with your husband doing the screening and being there to protect you... that way everyone knows it is only sex and you kep your love for your husband. With a friend that is too close and things may get complicated.

Best of luck enjoy it baby but be ready for when he also wants to **** other women because if he does not do that already he will and will also want you to join in..but that is okay...in fact it is very nice ...hehe... Luv Vicky

Don't say yes, just "well I don't know, maybe if that's what you really want, maybe". Insist that the man is married (less chance of STD's) and even then when the other man is there, insist he start you out by kissing and hugging and even screwing him. Then just lie there and then, if he still wants you to get f-ucked by another man, he will push it. Then go for it and enjoy the moment and screw his brains out right in front of your husband. Keep your husband involved by insisting he switch off, and do it as long as they can last. Enjoy the feeling inside of d-icks your p-ussy as each one of them enters you and c-ums. Afterwards, tell your husband thank you for such a wonderful night, and "trusting me while another man is f-ucking me" in just those words, and "I will do it again for you anytime".

how far along in ur plans r you now?

I've discussed this with my wife as well. And living in Asia like Honey69 doesn't make it any easier. But I'd like to explore it with you Honey69. We believe the first step maybe to watch each other make love to our respective spouses. Then let's see what goes.

feeling or being afraid is very natural, since you haven't done it yet or you haven't been in the lifestyle before. but since you seemed feeling thrilled on doing it, you really should give it a try. then if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it again. just be sure when you're going for it, try not to back out or change your mind during that very moment. just try to feel the first time having another man inside you. if you're still on the pills, let him finish inside and if you're not, you can prefer using latex. then, try not to freak out or until the two of you are done. now, after being with another man for the first time, ask yourself if you're still pursuing it or not. then again, everything is up to you. it's your decision and no one can force you on doing it even if your husband himself has given you the permission. but on my personal opinion, try it.

We had a Philippine college student staying with us in exchange for light housework and some cooking. She was 20 and had always been at home under the thumbs of her uptight parents. She was supposed to be away for the weekend, so I decided to have my black lover over late one night.

My husband was in bed with us to start out, but went to the other end of the house to his office after a bit. He had left the bedroom door ajar when he left thinking we were alone in the house. For reasons I never found out, Prisanna returned early. My black lover and I were quite busy and didn't hear her come down the hall to go into her room right next to ours. Of course there was a low light on, so she saw my black over astride my chest feeding his 9 inch thick **** to my lips. I don't know exactly how long she stood there watching, but the next thing I knew she was on the bed, naked, and joining in. There wasn't much I could say or do to keep him from sampling her tiny body. She was under five feet tall and weighed under 100 pounds, so when he finally got his big **** stuffed into her, my husband heard her wailing all the way at the other end of the house and came to see why I was making so much noise. When he saw me watching and in need, he dove into bed and started f*ucking me doggy style. The rest of the night is still somewhat of a blur, but I do know that both men kept switching back and forth between us. We had to have a frank talk with her the next afternoon after things calmed down. Philippine women really LOVE sex.

Honey69, I so badly would like to talk to you, my wife is Filipina and have been trying to get her to do it with another for some time, I know she has done it but wont admit it. Must be some filipina thing. Help.

I joined this group because my husband wants me to do it too, and I don’t understand why?! This is really confusing for me. It excites me but it also makes me afraid that things will get out of hand and cost me my marriage. What is it that you guys like about having your wife/gf have sex with another man, or several men?

try it! you'll like it! promise!

honey69,welcome to the hotwife life style. please keep posting your progress, no matter what! people need to share. some will and some won't. it's experiences and situations from others that help to make such an decision. thank you!

hi, user. i think i can relate with you and your wife coz we both are filipinas. it would be great getting to know you guys.