I Dunno

WE USED TO DO IT EVERY NOW N THEN.NOT ANYMORE.IM SERIOUS WIT MY GF N SHE WIT HER BF



AND DUDE IM SORRY I DIDNT GET THE CHEERLEADEARS TOO.SHE PROMISED DAMMIT,LOL!!

I GOT THE MSG.WERE DIVOCED NOW-**** HER

Most women cheat and are seldom caught, few men cheat and are almost always caught. Even though the wives have had every man except the local beat cop, they're stll jealous. What do you think they are doing all day when they claim to be window shopping? I'm single now and even at the farmers market, I have more braless t-its rubbed on me than I can count. I've even had women with short skirts and not panites rub their p-ussies on my hand when I have it on a low veggie stand looking at the produce. I carry a little bottle of Purell with me just for that. Face it, men, women may not have the physical sex need that men do, but their want for the big "O" dwarfs all men's drives put together, and they really don't care who they get it from or where they they get it.



When I was single in my early 20's and worked nights, more than 75% of married women came uninvited to my apartment during the day for sex, not lover making just plain f-ucking, and then promptly left. One night a group of 4 married girlfriends came over, and I only knew one of them. They just walked in and got naked, and started working my body. I f-ucked 2 and did the oral thing to 2 of them right there in my living room in my apartment.



Another time, on a celebration holiday, while everyone in the apartments was outside drinking and having fun, two wives wanted to use my telephone. I walked them inside my apartment so show them where the phone was, only to find out the just wanted to F-uck me. One of them closed the front door and they took their housecoats off and wore nothing underneath. Yes, we did the fmf thing and they left and went outside to continue enjoying the festivities with their husbands.



In this one apartment in Anaheim, CA, I screwed the landlord's wife for my rent for about 4 months, while I was out of work. So don't let anyone BS you about all those poor young ladies being taken advantage of to pay their rent. I found out these poor ladies initiate those deals. They have p-ussies and know how to use them to get what they want, when they want and how they want.



No, I was neither rich nor good looking. I was just barely making it financially and as far as looks, try somewhere between plain and mud fence, although I was in pretty good physical condition. When I was 16, I was, however, taught by a 36 year old woman how to perform s-exually with both ends. It was my best friends mom, and she was quite attractive. My divorced dad found out and just told me to be careful.



There are more examples here than I have space to write about, but you get the message.

I went through the same thing with my wife. For months she was screwing her new boss and she did not make a big secret of it. She would come home late and loaded and really sexed up! She knew I wanted her and soon it was obvious that she was giving me sloppy seconds and even thirds. She began to tell me about her exploits in painfully nasty detail and was well aware that I was hurt yet overwhelmingly and obviously aroused. She became quite dominate and used my arousal against me saying" You must like me f#**king other men, look at your pitiful excuse for a penis!". This led to a new era in our sex life where she dominated me and enjoyed watching me succumb to her power..Cuckolding they call it..

TO EACH HIS OWN.JUST NOT 4 ME

Can't it just be the sex? That's the way I look at it. It took years of "research" and self examination, but I finally figured out that women can have sex just for the sake of it too, just like us men. That was a big revelation for me, and a turn-on as well.



I think my partner was in love with our "extra guy's" co'ck more than anything. That's what made it so much fun: seeing her so passionate was exciting. Watching her, even if not sharing, was fun; for instance, seeing her naked underneath him and reaching down, I knew her thumb and delicate index finger encircled the head of his co'ck and her other fingers felt for her own pus'sy to guide him in there; I liked the way her neck arched as she reached so eagerly for his co'ck too. It was a gas knowing what was happening, even though I wasn't directly involved; I knew he was getting to feel the wonderful grip of her snug pus'sy. It still thrills me to think about it.



That the other guy's co'ck was so different than mine must have been a turn-on for her too: the shaft was narrower than mine but the head was much bigger, and he ca'me most readily, easily, it might have made her feel really sexy. She probably liked the way he sprayed so forcefully at times, I saw that once, the extra volume also. What's wrong with that? Can't a girl have a little fun? Isn't variety a thrill for all of us? It's hard to beat somebody new in bed!

i hate my wife.end story

A therapist told me my fantasies and etc. were a way of coping with a realistic fear that she'd cheat on me since she gave me a few close calls earlier in our marriage, making out with a guy outisde a bar when they all stopped off for one thing. I was eroticizing my worst fear to make it more pallateable the guy said and that made sense to me. My wife also said my fantasies confused her so when she did give it up to a guy I'd brought around and she got caught she said she thought I knew it and I was getting off on it. I kind of believe her in a lot of ways too and I think that's what's helped us heal out marriage since then 6 yrs ago. Of course i had my own little paypack fling with a girl almost 18 yrs younger than me which only proved to me further that I didn't want anyone else. We've worked very hard on getting honest about everything. I do get turned on by the fantasy but the reality is still too scary. She gets turned on by my talking about it and by the idea of another partner and my being turned on by her with another guy but as far as we go now it is going to stay in fantasyville. Therapists also say that this is one of THE top male fantasies in spite of what macho pinheads will try to tell you.

wow guysogood you were really going at it in your story. i hope your fantasies come true... or not.

were seperated now.im too jealous for that though i admit it was kind of turn on

I'm inspired to read your confession and want to confess my fantasy which is very similar to yours but from a guy's point of view. My wife once returning from an overseas trip told me that on her flight she met this charming guy who was sitting next to her. She told me how he was so smart, friendly and a bit flirtatious to her on the flight. Her comments about him showed a hint of shyness in sharing the details about what happened between the two of them on the flight. From what I gathered thru gentle prodding was that the guy charmed her by telling her that she didn't look old enough to be married and that he was saddened by this fact. He wanted to know if she had any sisters as beautiful looking and sweet as her. She was so enamored by his charm that she didn't object when he put his hand on her leg (she was in a skirt) while acting as it was the most normal thing to do. I couldn't bring up enough courage to further probe her into telling me what more happened after that and where his hand went from there. I had a mixed bag of feelings after hearing this story from my wife. I was very upset from the fact that she allowed him so much of freedom in touching and feeling her and making all those flirtatious comments without telling him that she was happily married to me. For many days I had these emotions which ranged from jealousy, outrage, anger, frustration ... but what shocked and surprised me the most was that as I replayed this whole incidence again and again in my mind and wondered how and what might have happened between my wife and that guy on that fateful flight and to my surprise even though I was jealous and angry but also getting an erection. At first I was disgusted with myself on why was I getting turned on like this when this guy was trying to flirt with my wife and probably trying to go much beyond just plain harmless flirtations. I tried to search on internet and see if there was something wrong with me, why were my thoughts so convoluted and whether I had some mental problem for which I should see a psychologist but as I researched more and more on internet I read many stories similar to mine and realized that I was not the only person in this world with these thoughts and there were many more guys out there who felt the same way. Anyway, coming back to my wife's story, her interaction with this guy didn't end there but actually by chance I came across some of his email interactions with my wife later on in which he was further laying it on her and trying to take her further into his web. It also sounded like my wife also was enjoying all the attention and flirtations that he was heaping on her. They had started exchanging phone numbers and the guy was asking about visiting her in person the next time he was in our town. He was asking her if her husband (me) will get jealous if he found out about their interactions. Gosh, I should have been outraged and boiling with fury but no, my thoughts were going in the other direction, I was getting more and more turned on by the happenings and was almost looking forward to where and how far will the two of them go. Eventually, there interaction stopped after a few months but till date I keep wondering how far they actually went, did they ever meet, when, where, what did they do? I never had the courage to ask my wife about it again may be because I didn't want to spoil our marriage or may be it was something else, I don't know. The truth is that till date whenever I am alone with my thoughts and I feel like I want to enjoy my time alone I replay various scenarios that could have happened between my wife and this guy and it instantaneously makes me horny like hell. It has gotten to a stage where I wonder in those scenarios whether this went further to an extent where my wife had more than one lover with her at the same time and how and what they did. My wife is a very beautiful, petite girl with good figure and I do see a lot of my friends and strangers drool over her whenever she dresses up and goes out partying. I have thought a lot about how it would be if one day i come back home from one of my business trips and find my wife with 2-3 or more of her lovers f*** n doing all kinds of kinky things. These thoughts make me sooo horny that I have to resort to doing something about it myself ;) but this truly is my fantasy to one day see my wife in the throws of passion, moaning and groaning going ecstatic as she is taken by multiple of her lovers and then she sees me standing there at the door but she is soo far gone in this act that even if she tries she can't do anything but to keep going with the flow and as she looks down she sees my trousers tenting showing that I am not at all angry with what I'm seeing but am liking what she is doing. This only speeds up to the oncoming massive ****** that she can't control and actually adds more intensity to it as she looks up into my eyes and instantaneously goes over the edge. I can keep going on and on talking about how I feel about this but I will stop here for now. I wonder if there are others on this website who share my feelings and then may be we can talk further.

halftime you are right on the money.i never wanna know,lol

I kind of undersatnd your comment about wanting to see. I thought about hiring a private ditective. To get a "clear" imagae of what he was after and doing. Then I thought better of it. Some things are better unknown. Not for the spouses sake, but you our own.

I don't have much time to elaborate, however, I've experienced something of the same. I was in the military and overseas for a year(NOT by choice mind you). A year away from home. Not to say that everyone cheats...but while being away for a long time, things do happen. I forgave her because she was lonely for a long time(a year), and well, we're human...women get horny just as the next person. I was too. However, I was faithful. Thats the only part that got me...I mean, I could understand her needing it. But the fact I refrained....why couldn't she? Hence, men have an inherent bad rep...."men cheat". Thats what I hear a lot of women say anyways. Perhaps this is a big enlightenment for those women who think one thing about men?







But as far as to say "can't beat em' join em'".. My friend, I can understand your approach to your situation. We talked about and suggested her and I to have an open marriage if I had to go away for a long time again. But I retracted any suggestions of the sort due to her erratic behavior. Very bitter, disrespectful, careless, selfish...she had no love. We had a child in common as well. He too suffered due to her physical outbursts. Which I'd hope nobody would have to experience. I got my son and I out of that situation all together. But it did take an outrageous judicial battle, and a uphill fight due to no help. I'm going to take a step out and say this... Yes, I got my son and I out of a very bad situation. There is an extreme bias towards us guys when it comes to family, and children. And I know I'm not alone. Take heed. If your other half isn't putting forth her part?..... You need take care of yourself. Period.

This kind of entry ought to go in a blog or something; it is not an "experience." As a teenager, my high school sweetheart "cheated on me" and I was really ******; I had moved out of town and heard about it from some friends when I went back for a visit, got really ****** and ended up wailing on the guy. Big mistake. They had "made out" and he had put a bunch of his fingers up her ***** but nothing beyond that I was told. It seems dumb now. I married that girl a year later, back in the seventies, and we ended up swingers while I was in the navy. It was tremendously exciting, even though I knew she was cheating on me then! I cheated on her too. It was fun, an experimental marriage. Sexy. Second marriage is way different, very traditional, none of that fooling around; we did have some ********* experiences before getting married but none since.