My First Ep Friend

Fungirlmmm welcomed me with hugs on the first day my lost self joined ep, Feb 19, 2008.  She was my first ep friend and has since become one of my very dearest friends ever.

We started chatting about diet and exercise and she gave me some helpful hints that I, of course, have ignored, but I'm sure would totally work if I tried them more than once...

She was dumped on facebook and that is when our friendship really kicked into high gear.  BTW, he is so not worthy of her.  I said it then and I will say it again and again...  That was the first time of many we cried together and laughed together.  It was the first time I heard her lovely voice, and it was the first and only time I apologized for saying **** in a conversation with her.  (she has come a long f*cking way with that one, and I am still practicing how to say it with her drawl... )

She saw me through a divorce, pushed and pulled me through it when I needed it, and helped me keep it strapped on when I felt it slipping.  

She got me through a really, really hard time (she knows what I'm talking about) and that is one thing I don't think I would have ever survived without her.  She let me call her in the middle of the night, first thing in the morning, and when I was at the grocery store, crying my eyes out every time.  I wanted to just die.   She wouldn't let me.  She held me up and smacked me upside the head when I needed it.  And let me tell you, there were times I definatly needed it!

When I told her I was losing my job she started sending me huge amounts of websites to look for a new one, and offered to tweak my resume (which I will still take her up on as soon as I put it together).

Now, I know as HeavenBesideYou, I am the one with the wings on most of my avatars, but let me tell you, Fungirlmmm is the true angel.  In my real life as well as on ep.  I love you FG, you are truly my Bestest!

And the offer is still open if you want to move to Atlanta.

Just saying...


HeavenBesideYou HeavenBesideYou
41-45, F
7 Responses Feb 12, 2009

You are so right Rog, fortune was def. smiling on me the day I joined ep! I have been so very blessed with my friendships, both on ep and in rl, and those that transcend...<br />
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FG will always have a place in my heart, and I in hers, we will be friends forever. Of this I am 100% sure.<br />
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OH HBY, you are too sweet to me. I swear if you ever grow a p*nis I am going to fall in love with you. LOL

LOL FG!!!! I know you really loved him Sweetie, but he is just not worthy of my Bestest, considering the way he treated you... and man boobs are so NOT cute girl. Just saying...<br />
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Lucky for you I deleted those pics right away, or I may have had some sweet ep revenge! ;)<br />
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And you will NEVER lose me as your best friend, it would be like losing a part of myself. I love you muchly.

Oh IT, You have to admit I must have really been in love because when I look at pictures of us together back then I cringe and as my best friend pointed out. HE HAS MAN BOOBS. I cannot believe I thought he was so hot. Love truly is blind I guess. I have dated so many hot guys since him that I just can't believe I was settling like that.<br />
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OMG!!! I had forgotten I sent you those pix! I can remember thinking when I posted that pic of you "Oh hell I just lost my best friend. LOL"

Thanks IT! Rally the troops just in case she ever needs us!!! Hugs girlfriend.

Dang! I totally forgot to mention the naughty pics you have sent my way! Oh! And the one you accidentally posted of a certain derriere! Ugh. There is just so much we have been through together, girl!<br />
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I have had tears in my eyes on and off all day. It has just been one of those days, I guess...<br />
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ILY2, my Bestest, and you know you mean the world to me. I could never imagine a way to thank you enough for all you have come to mean to me.

I have tears in my eyes reading this HBY. You are such a great person and you know that I love you. I think you are possibly one of the few people I could live with and not go totally crazy. I love you so much. You have come to be one of the most important people in my life. I feel so totally undeserving of you, my crafty friend.