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why beutiful girl in different Avatars in pentie & buttocks , not like comments on their sexy beauty?

Ugh! For me she's coming this weekend.... for joy....

I'll have to remember that about Aunt Crampee...LOL!

I get a visit from Auntie Flo, well maybe Auntie Crampee to be more precise. I get abdominal bloating, breast tenderness, tension or anxiety, mood swings, irritability, crying spells (many times), food cravings (more than usual), and fatigue. And yes cramps.



I don't touch myself except to wash, no reaction. But as for fantasies, I do think about being with two men ... one in me at each end. I can and do have *******, at least my version. My heart beats quickly, I breath a bit faster, my body tenses and shakes (quivers), my skin flushes a bit, and I feel this wonderful warming glow radiating from my pubic area in waves all over my body.

I'm sure you do! Most of do, for good reasons! I was wondering about the monthlies....



So -- here comes a REAL naughty one....



Do you have a favorite jilling off fantasy? And .... what is it?

When I was younger, I had pads to help smooth me out down there. Not so much any more as I'm smaller and pretty flat anyway these days.



I do use other women's products: Dove deodorant, sensitive facial/body soaps and washes, astringents and skin toners ... to name a few.

OK... hmmm... I know some T-women go to great lengths to feel more fully female, even to the point of buying and using feminine hygiene products.... has this ever been something you have indulged in?

For some reason I am always at ease with women. It seems that there is no stress what-so-ever in business or casual settings.



Men are different. I'm not into sports and such so in casual settings there is not much to talk about. It is usually slow going. In business situation it not as bad cause we have business or the current project to talk about and solve.



I see many pretty and beautiful women all the time. There is no real sexual attraction, though I am always looking at their clothes (dresses, skirt, heels, etc). I find that I'm thinking about how I would look in them or if I wouldn't ever wear them.



Men are different, again. I'm not sexually attracted to ALL men but there are some that "get my motor running". When that happens it is a bit hard to concentrate cause I'm thinking of doing something much different than talking. So yes, some men can sexually arouse me.

Josie...I can really identify with you...I'm curious about how you feel when you are with a group of men in both business and casual settings....also as compared to how you feel being in a group of women in either setting...Do you get aroused sexually more in either group ?

That is my plan. Once I have fulfilled my responsibilities (children still at home). Then I'll need to be able to finance everything.



That is the big rub, financing all the surgeries and hormones, etc.



But, yes! That is my dream and my plan.

In the office: the women talk with me freely and invite me to their lunches and shopping often. The me fall into two groups. The biggest are cordial and respect me and my work. The smaller group does in deed chat and even invite me out to lunch, they pay many times. I don't believe I am perceived as gay, no one ever has 'confronted' me with that so I'm guessing not.



I'm not open at home or at work. However at work, especially the women, seem to understand better. It takes a while but the last one I was OPEN to became a boyfriend for almost 18 months. He kept my secret.



I have never used anal toys. I don't know if I will.

Hi Josie,

How do others in your office see you? You said you sit and walk in a feminine manner.

Are you seen as gay? Are you open with anyone at work about your true nature?



You said you have only given oral pleasure to men so far. Do you enjoy using anal toys?

Sounds like you really work at it! And you know (I hope!) that you are always welcome in our EP discussions!



Now that I think of it, though, this is supposed to be for naughty questions....



I shall have to try and think of some!!!!

I shave from my eyebrows down to my feel and exfoliate. I just luv my legs shaves and smooth and soft, so I moisturize my skin (all over). I diet. Wearing a dress, heels, and stockings when I can. Get my hair styled somewhat, feathered and layered. Don't wear makeup but always use a cherry chap stick (tinted). Pluck my eyebrows lightly. I sit and walk in a feminine manner, always.



It's a mood thing too. I think my feeling feminine has a lot to do with feeling fresh, clean, good-hair day, no pimples, and nice professional (somewhat cute) outfit. Maybe it's soft skin, delicate gestures, slight frame, shapely figure, all the things that are a woman's body.



I like when my friends, gf's on EP, let me participate in their discussions. A sense of belonging even though I'm a bit different.

Which I am sure is delightful! What else do you do to make yourself feel better as a woman? Is there anyway I could help?

No, not all the time. Only when on extended business trips do I get dresses, shirts, blouses and heels. Mostly it's cotton panties and my 'Annie Hall' look.

Josie, my sister, so tell me, are you dressing as yourself, a woman, all the time now?

Oh, I see :-) *wink*

Yes, I have been a couple times. When I was with a woman I always saw myself, in my mind, as the woman and receiving a man.

Have you ever been with a woman Josie? If so, did it appeal to you?

I think that is the way to be. After all if you marry you say those words. I also know that no one should be forced to do anything against their will. There is a balance that must be reached and maintained. Guess it comes with respect and trust.

nice answer, I know the difference between TG and TV. I lived in the far east for quite some time and have experienced TG, most with breasts.



I hope you find your man and live happy ever after.



So to my question,,, I have once replied to a mail of yours about training you.

Wil you love , honour and OBEY your man when he comes along.?

I am transgender. That's the BIG umbrella term for many individuals/behaviors.



I am transexual. I identify as female, even though born male. A woman in a mans body.



I am not a transvestite. A transvestite is someone who dresses and acts as the opposite sex, usually a man acting as a woman.



I am pre-op so I still have the genitals of a male. I hope that one day (responsibilities and finances) I will be post-op and have the genitals of a female.





I am a woman, always have been and desire a man. My relationships with men have been platonic and with a few sexual. I have on;y had oral sex with men, never been more intimate. My dream and hope is to find a man I trust and respect and he understands, trusts and respects me and have a more intimate relationship. At that time I'll be able to answer your second question.

Ok Josie.

Are you transexual or transvesite? In other words do you have **** and a ****?



What was it like the first time your *** was ******, how'd it happen and did it hurt?