My Take

Here's how I see sex between a man and a woman:

The woman's role is too be sexually arousing and to allow the man to do whatever it takes/whatever he wants in order to *** inside her - his needs should direct things (but hers can/should be considered as well and it's best that way).

A man should be focused on having the most intense ****** he can in/on his partner and do whatever he needs to do to her to accomplish that.
sometimes that will mean that she is going to be uncomfortable (or even in pain) or exposed or shared with others or degraded or humiliated or embarrassed or whatever.

The question to ask is: did he *** and was it a "full release" for him? If yes, everything was done right. And if the woman gets off too that is an extra bonus (which, if the man is "good" he can accomplish most of the time). But a woman ******* is not the focus. If it was then women would have been built so that it was easier to ****** during sex. Instead it takes the "right man" who cares to make it happen - which is great. That's who you settle down with. But before that you are going to **** a lot if other men first and it's best for a woman to understand how things really are and her role in pleasing the man.

The fact is: the species survival is dependent on male ******. The man's role is to *** and the woman's role is to receive that *** (and get pregnant, ultimately).
Some women don't like this line of thinking and some men prefer to be the submissive and "serve" the woman. That's fine too. As long as these two types find each other!