Enough Said...

I don't understand some of these men. You want a good woman. A good woman comes along. Instead, you would rather get with these dramatic, ghetto, sassy, dumb females. Some of them are beautiful, but looks are not everything. You can have a beautiful/handsome dumbass, just as an ugly/somewhat attractive intelligent, nice person. I have said this many times, but people are different in the world. If you tell me all of these things such as "I care about you", I like you", "I want to be with you"---but at the same time you are getting text messages from other females telling you they miss you in bed and you sending messages telling them "hey brown sugar looking good as always" (which is something he has never said to me), it is very obvious you are not ready for a relationship because you are too busy trying to be like the guys in the streets and music videos, etc to see how much *** you can get (in a previous post, I mentioned how love is so commercialized, this is how some people see it and think this is how love is. F***ing pathetic). Basically you are still in player mode. Who knows how many other females he has told this to. What is it with these guys wanting someone opposite of a good woman? I don't get it. But again, these are the SAME guys that complain about NOT finding a good woman. I mean, is the sex better? Does she look better? Does she do certain things I don't do? Let me know! These are not insecurity questions, but if that's the case then you need to be telling the other female the things you are telling me (that's if you haven't told her already). It takes ONE time for me to doubt you and it's done. I am too sensitive, loving, caring of a woman to do this. There is nothing wrong with exploring what's out there, but not all *** is good *** (looks are very deceiving). Also, if you are out there exploring, don't tell me this kind of **** like our future is locked in or something. In this case, I will leave you the hell alone so you can keep exploring. It's that simple. I'm not a dramatic woman.

This is how I am feeling right now. I had to vent, so I am so sorry.

Has anyone else been through this, whether the person is male or female? Please share, because I really would like to know why people do these type of things.

MysticLioness MysticLioness
31-35, F
2 Responses Mar 7, 2010

No you do not suck at relationships. There are women out there in a relationship they really don't want to be in it because they feel trapped, scared, obligated to that partner, and other things. Believe me when I say, there is a good woman out there that is looking for a man like you. You will find her. What goes around, comes around. Sometimes people have to learn the hard way and lose someone special to know what they had; chances are, by that time, it's too late. Good luck to you, and thank you for commenting. Until then...

I am very sorry about how you feel. My marriage ended after 6 years because she decided the guys on their internet were more interesting then me. Never mind the fact that I was a stay at home dad cooking and cleaning for her. Running her lunch to work for her, going to the store in the sure of the moment because she craved some chocolate or something. I tried all the time to tell her how pretty she was and how much I loved her. I just don't understand the concept of throwing people away? Maybe I just suck at relationships. <br />
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So yes in a way I know how you feel.