Hi There.Most people write these to prevent people from adding them and it usually works. I often don't care who adds me. Not many people do, but when they do it's usually those who only have sex related experiences. I'm not here for sex so I most definitely will not add you back if the majority of your experiences are sex related..
If I add you it means I found a comment of yours to be witty, intelligent and sometimes amusing. It doesn't matter how many experiences we have In common.
If I don't talk to you after adding you/you adding me, it means my life is busy and I'm not good at starting conversation. So please, feel free to message me any time and I will reply at my earliest convenience.