Some Things You May Want to Know B4 You Add Me to Your Friends' List

I get the same questions lately over and over again so let me address some things upfront.

First, a few people ask me if I am a real person and/or if I have really experienced so many things so let’s set the record straight.  YES, I am a real person and many of my EP friends have met me in real life and/or were brought here by me from my real life.  I am a real, normal female person.   Yes, I have had a lot of experiences in my lifetime. The stories I share are true with few exceptions.  Those exceptions are some of my short stories which are fictional but are either fantasies of mine and/or are taken from my real life and are told from my point of view of how the events unfolded.

I do not always reply to public comments left on my Whiteboard or group gestures nor do I respond to random requests to chat or send photos; there are simply too many for me to keep up with so I don't even try anymore.  If I want you to have pictures of me I will offer, otherwise it is a waste of your time to ask.   If you find this offensive I apologize, but if so, you may not want to add me as your friend. 

I don't like boring chit chat so if you are new and you have the urge to ask me if I'm naked right now or if I'm feeling h*rny then I suggest you don’t.  I will either ignore your request or reply in a manner that may shock you and certainly will not titillate you.  Once I get to know a person I don’t mind discussing any topic but I'm not here to entertain strangers or children.  I am here to interact with adults only, who take the time to get to know me for the real person I am. 

I do love interacting with others through PM so if you send me a private message I will reply although it may take me a while as I get a lot of messages. 

My favorite thing on Experience Project however is reading & writing stories.  This includes EROTICA!  If you find this offensive, again you may not want to add me to your circle.   I have a lot of stories and I don’t expect you to read them all.  I try to read my friends’ stories but I don’t always get around to everyone on my circle.  If you have a story you think I would find interesting then PM it to me and I will read it otherwise I use the tools on EP to reach as many as I can with the limited time I have available in a day. I may or may not always get around to reading your stories. 

These are all things that you should know before you add me to your circle.  If you have no problems with any of these then go ahead and click that add button.


fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
46-50, F
179 Responses Aug 24, 2009

Ur so rite tell it like it is is always best & if they don't like it aw

Love the way you express your boundaries;<br />
clear, and backed up by appropriate action.<br />
Anyone who tries to mess with you gets what they deserve.<br />
I have no trouble with that stuff,<br />
but I'm not an attractive mark for it.<br />
Actually that's one of the great blessings of growing older.<br />
People become fascinating for who they are,<br />
and we can learn to love in non-sexual ways.<br />
Thank you

Thank you for your comments.

Personally, I appreciate a woman who is upfront and open about what is and is not acceptable. One thing I agree with you on is the personal questions and requests that some men spout off with. Give those guys a dirty magazine and a hand towel; they will spend a few minutes with their erotic dreams and then crawl back into their their little dark corner. Myself, I am a man who enjoys the company of a woman that is open and honest with me. Regardless of the expectations, or activities during the time together, I still enjoy the company. Having nude or suggestive photos or wanting to know about someone's state of dress or undress is not living in reality. Reality is actually meeting be it online or in person. Look forward to reading your future stories and comments.

Thanks PCH.

Nothing like being a month late to the party! <br />
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Well stated and understood! Oh My I need to get a picture of my 'puppy" for you! arf arf !<br />
since I am 100% sure we will never meet in person, let me just thank you now for your entertaining, thou somewhat arousing articles. Close your eyes Grannie!

good for you. hope we can be friends and chat some time.

What ever happened to "BEING YOURSELF" ???<br />
Not only that, but isn't that one of the great advantages of the Experience PROJECT???? ....a project developed so that the tyranny that comes with FaceBook and SodaHead and those networks you have to reveal your identity , where you live, etc. EP is well advertized to be the "BE WHO YOU ARE WITHOUT HAVING TO IDENTIFY if you dont choose to. . . "<br />
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I LOVE diversity and i LOVE it when i hear from you! KEEP on Keepin on, GF!

So, tell us, are you a REAL person...?? *tease, wink, tease*<br />
Here in South Africa we'd say that is a k@k - pronounced kuck (s hitty) question. Here on EP one should use a lot of imagination and if one lacks that, then good-bye or foxtrot

That was a good way of putting it. See you later!

Your post could be compared to a IRON FENCE in front of someone's house. Its first purpose is to keep most people out. But do thank you for you letting me in though...

I really have to do that these days. I am glad we are friends as well. **hugs**

Be my guess.
Hope your day starts out well:)

Something on your Experiences Board is close at hear to me.:)

Thank you for your time & consideration. Hugs, LW

Thanks y'all

thats is the way to go baby the point...

I say nonsense: There is no such thing as a normal girl!!! :)

I like writing erotica and reading it too. Have you ever looked at the site You might enjoy it, there are a lot of people who share this form of ex<x>pression. I have found it very enjoyable.

I feel for you ladies when I see all the disrespectful, suggestive crap that so many guys spew. I know you must get weary of it. I guess the proof of that is your need to write a preamble on how to behave. <br />
I just now found you and, I hope you don't mind, I'll look at your profile and recent activity. Meanwhile when I've posted this I shall click your fan button (or circle or friend ... I'm still looking of FAQs on this stuff).

Actually Scot my life is pretty dayum good except for the jerks that think they know me or want to use my posts to make themselves feel better or superior. To those people I say build a bridge and get over it or drown in the pity that they must feel from everyone.

I thought you were going to say, build a bridge and get under it. Isn't that where trolls live?

Lmbo. I forget who I was answering but they deleted their comment so i can't say why I commented in that manner.

Must not have been someone too important to me because I was pitying them and that is not me normally. I usually am caring and empathetic not sympathetic.

Don't forget you sometimes leaving hanging at the best parts in a message!! -_- i will forever be curious.

What best part.. You will have to PM me. I am ADD lately a lot because of some of the medicine after my surgeries so you may have to remind me.

Thanks panties. (Hugs)

You know, I think you're actually in my buddy list (you are) and I don't think I know you at all.<br />
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I gotta try harder.

You used to talk to me but it has been awhile since you sent me a whiteboard.

Yeah, I think our last conversation had something to do with sleeping pills. Then you fell asleep on me. It's very rude to do that, you know.

Nu uh... Our last conversation was when you asked me about one of my stories. That was our last PM and then I had surgery right after that and wasn't here for awhile.... but our last conversation was on the whiteboard.

You win this round, Fungirl.

You might want to tell them how you feel about Skype-ing too. I get that a lot. Apparently there are A LOT of naked people sitting around their computers diddling themselves on camera and can't help but ask if you are too LMAOOO

Ewww yeah! The only person I skype with is my special man and I don't even do that now as it hoses up my phone.

Clear guidelines and boundaries, I like that. I would think the questions of you being 'real' would be negated by such a fantastic response. Take care girl.

you know what you want and do not want wonderful to hear

I love to read erotica, it is often more stimulating than the explicit photosoften posted. I am not good at writing, so there are not a large number of stories from me, mostly true stories. I am not into GYN photos and they seem to abound on EP, i prefer erotic, sensitive, artistic photos.

Like you, I love writing and reading erotica, and experiencing it in real life. Thanks for sharing your stories!

I agree with your rules! They are the same as mine. I'm a crossdresser who is happy married. Not gay. I just like dressing as a women. My wife is great about my female side. But it does not consume our life. We have been married for over twenty years. I'm not able to have sex with my wife because of my RA. My wife knows that I chat with other people men women on EP. I'm unable to work so I spend a lot of time on the site. And she is fine with it.
I like to chat with women and read their postings. I also love to write about my life as a crossdresser. I don't know if you will ever read this reply. But I would like to be added!