It's Got To Be Said..

- STOP ADDING ME IF YOU'RE ONLY ON HERE FOR SEX.

- STOP ADDING ME IF YOU HAVE A NUDE AS YOUR DEFAULT.

- STOP ADDING ME IF ALL YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE ABOUT SEX.

 

Sure, I'm glad you're open with your sexuality and you use this site to express every side of you freely, but do I honestly have to see a picture of your penis as an avatar? No.

I also do not need to go to your page (to figure out who you are when you add me), only to see all your top experiences about how you're looking to cyber or those annoying little linked videos of you ************ on webcam.

I don't mind you having a few sexual experiences or whatever.. but if you're on here for hooking up, I'm not interested.

In fact, how about I dumb it down for you?

- No, I'm not interested in nude photo-exchanges.

- No, I'm not interested in hooking up with your wife or giving you my opinions on your fully erect penis.

- No, I'm not interested in giving you my email or any form of my contact information for the sole purpose of you wanting me to cyber.

- No, I'm not interested in the fact that you have sex with your dog, your dad or simply complete strangers.



The amount of messages I get daily from people with those questions is ridiculous.

No, I do not have any sexual experiences added to my profile.

I came on here for the sole purpose of expressing myself anonymously with people who share said experiences and interests, and it seems like now I get ten adds a day from sex-addicted people wanting to hook up in some form.



Yes, I'm a lesbian. That DOES NOT, in any way, equal sexual deviant.

 

AGAIN:

- I do not mind perverted people.

- I do not mind you having a few sexual experiences and / or stories.

- I do not mind you talking about sex or whatever else pleases you.

But honestly? Only add me if you can conduct an intellectual conversation that does not revolve around you and your sexual preferences.

M0RGUE M0RGUE
18-21, F
4 Responses Mar 1, 2010

Amen!

Thank you :-) And I was very pleased to add you as a friend this afternoon ...

Psh. The "grandma" talk has got to be cut out.<br />
You're not that old, and honestly, you still look gorgeous.<br />
But you're totally right and I agree with 100% of what you said.<br />
I'm glad SOMEONE shares my view on this. (:

Even though I'm an old broad, you wouldn't believe the amount of mail I've received (particularly at dating and social gathering sites) that request nude pictures. I'm also asked if I have a web cam so we can converse in the nude (hilarious), and oh -- my favorite -- they want to know if I'll have sex with them while someone else watches and/or if I'll be sexually dominant with them. Geez, guys; all I wanted was some e-mail. <br />
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I'm with you: sex is great, I don't mind perverted people, and I don't mind conversations involving sex. But come on. You're dealing with someone who could be a grandma and while I've had my share of sexual dalliances, I'm not looking to add any additional sexual conquests to my little black book at this advanced point in my life. In fact, I don't even have a little black book. So let's start out as friends; maybe something will evolve from that but honestly, I don't have the energy or the inclination to deal with **********, acting out S&M fantasies, etc. Can we keep it simple, at least initially? And no more introductory e-mail mail that starts out: "Hi, sexy. Would you like to give me a bl*w job.?" No. I really wouldn't. Any further questions?