Surprisingly Accurate

Your Existing Situation

"In a very inactive and stationary condition, yet conflict and disagreements keep the wheels in the head constantly turning. Looking for fulfilling relationships which are affectionate and understanding, yet settles for less."

Your Stress Sources

"Feeling trapped in a unpleasant situation and feels powerless to fix it. Upset and irritated because she feels doubtful she will ever be able to achieve her goals. Feeling frustrated and emotionally drained, and longs to escape. Needs to get away and have the freedom to make her own decisions. "

Your Restrained Characteristics

Emotionally demanding and will involve herself in close relationships but won't get too involved or give too much of himself.

He is being forced to be happiness and pleasure on hold for now due to her limiting circumstances.

"Believes her hopes and dreams are realistic, but needs reassurance from others. Has strict standards when looking for a partner and wants guarantees that she will not be disappointed or lose."

"Although she is able to find contentment through sexual activity, she feels hopeless to change her problems and difficulties and continues to make the best of what she has."

Your Desired objective

Seeks to be known for something she has accomplished and uses her social abilities to win people over. Emotional and sensitive and romantic.

Your Actual Problem

"Feeling a lack of energy, she does not wish to be involved in further activity or give in to demands. she is feeling powerless causing her stress, agitation, and irritation, all which she tries to escape by refusing to participate altogether. she tries to escape into a fantasy world where things go her way and her desires are easier to reach."

Your Actual Problem #2

Longs for the freedom to make her own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses her charm to deal with others and get what she wants.

Yep - feeling trapped, stressed and powerless.  And irritated, dammit!  LOL  And it's true I'm a romantic.  They missed my sense of humor, though.

This isn't a very flattering portrait, but I have to say it's a pretty accurate picture of where I am now.  I sure don't want to stay here, however!!  I see I need to quit daydreaming and act - my Epeeps are helping with this.


nitwitty nitwitty
56-60, F
1 Response Apr 12, 2011

"now at this age when quite a few people have retired, I am going out there and look for a job!"<br />
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Yes, me too! 'Scary' doesn't begin to cover it. I so admire your determination to put one foot in front of the other despite the stress and limitations. I've learned about courage from you, because I see you acting rather than just talking about it. Thank you, my friend!!!!!!