Someone Needs To Apologize

I have read the posts here and find it heartbreaking.

Not so much because of the abandonment, but because manie blame themselves for the actions of others.

Someone needs to apologise for the selfish and self centered acts of others that did damage to victims of this behavior.

U don't know me, but I understand the pain ur and r experiencing.

Someone needs to apologize to u. Let it me:

I am sorri that ur lives wear put on hold because of other peoples feelings of inadequacie and low self esteem. U are not to blame for anithing that happend to u. U were a victim.

I am sorrie this happend. I wish u well. I wish u go on with ur lives and become productive, caring and compassionate individuals.

Learn from their mistakes. U  know what pain is. Spare others from the feeling.

Write to me if I can be of help.

I listen.

I will not give opinions unless asked.

God Bless u.

retiredfather retiredfather
61-65, M
5 Responses Feb 14, 2010

Thank you retired Father. That was just what I needed to hear at this moment. I haave tears of tenderness for all of us and the crosses we bear. Love you.

well should i hold a grudge against my mother for leaving? Is it possible to forgive her when so many people pity you and remind you how wrong it was? I really don't know how to manage that.

ur welcome.

You're the best.