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I Was Abbandoned When I Was 14

Anyone Home?

By: madmanmo
Written on November 2nd, 2008
By: madmanmo
Age: 46-50 , Male
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  • lostsoul824

    I loved the story. thanks I hope things are better for you now!!

    Mar 16, 2012
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  • KelsoBee3

    this would make an amazing film.

    Mar 12, 2012
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  • hillbillycrone

    Blessings and Peace to you~

    Feb 1, 2012
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  • Mybrokenheart2011

    umm... whats inner peace?

    Dec 22, 2011
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  • simplyawesome3

    i loved this story. i had my way of rough times at a very young age also. And thats how i made peace with myself and relieved the angry i had inside me.

    Jul 3, 2011
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  • Shandana

    That is an awesome story!! So did you ever go back to school and make use of that resource which today is recognized as cool and valued - geekness!!?? I hope that you are having a wonderful life! Your sister and parents too!! :-)

    Jun 14, 2011
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  • FeloniSSSalt

    In my opinion if school doesn't suit you, you SHOULD get the hell out. Most school curricula are designed for the student of average intelligence and motivation, if not the student who answers to the description of the lowest common denominator. You can learn a HELL of a lot more on your own. In the States, encyclopedias are discarded. Get a set, read them, and you'll be more informed than most college graduates.



    When I was a kid, students didn't have to stay in school past the age of 16. I'm not sure even 16 is early enough to get rid of kids for whom school is not suited.



    My father, thanks to my mother, died when I was 13. I immediately left home and I have never been sorry. I got an excellent education, because at the time (1960's), the most demanding higher-level institution of learning in the USA was University of California at Berkeley, and the tuition was VERY cheap, so anyone could work his/her way through.



    Even though I ended up teaching (all levels: K-college) I readily admit that most schools are terrible places for children. The major subject taught is conformity, not thinking or even information.



    You seem to feel that you were abandoned. I don't get that. It appears to me that YOU abandoned your father. And so what? Weren't you mature enough to make the decision? If you weren't, you should admit you made a poor decision, and learn from it. Instead, you seem to think that YOU can teach HIM. Looks more to me that HE taught YOU, by leaving you to your own devices. Good for dad!

    Jul 23, 2010
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  • Kindal

    Incredible! This brought tears to my eyes that you were able to still go back and show your father and still have that love and not be bitter. I admire you.

    Nov 17, 2009
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  • trulysad

    I admire your strength, wow look at you. Your a surviver and you have learnt to forgive, i have a severe problem with forgiving and understanding why with some of my personal situations. I take my hat off to you, you should feel very proud of yourself.

    Oct 20, 2009
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  • LunarDrive

    If my parents left me at a foreign country I would just roam hungry and die. Yours is a great case of lemon to lemonade transition. Hell, it sounds like you were better off without them.

    Aug 4, 2009
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  • geetar39

    Interesting story and glad you found peace. I would also love to learn the road to peace. I also agree with the comment that you should write your story.

    Jul 23, 2009
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  • zinco

    I hope you go back to school and get a good education, I wish learning came as easy for me! You have a lot to teach the world, but you need that piece of paper.

    Good luck!

    Apr 6, 2009
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  • Issac95

    How old were you two(sisters) when you first parted ways.

    Mar 26, 2009
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  • sacredvision

    I'm with leb it would be a fantastic book indeed.

    Mar 18, 2009
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  • LittleMonroe

    Wow, this is an amazing story. It's amazing to hear that you went through all of this and then managed to find your own peace and balance.

    Mar 15, 2009
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  • leb32894

    wow! that was a great story!

    i feel as though you should right a book about it!

    haha i would love to read it!

    I most deffiantly respect you for giving your father another chance.

    i wish the best for you now!

    Mar 14, 2009
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  • madmanmo

    You are so right satire, that's why I went Wollongong, Melbourne, Brisbane, the outback, Surfers Paradise and everything in between to see what REAL Aussi's are like. One place I stayed was in the back of a milk bar owned by a Greek family. I worked in the store during the day and slept in the back at night. They fed me and took care of me at the very beginning of my stay. They also gave me a little money when it was time to leave. I have nothing but high regard for the Australian people, open hearted, caring and a proud nation. I had the chance to see Australia in it's real form. Most of my travels were by the kindness of strangers, I hitch hiked most of the way and was treated like one of their own countrymen. As for Sydney I for one loved it there, it's culture, mass transportation ( you can go from West Ryde to the beaches in no time at all ) the atmosphere of Bondi Beach was like nowhere else on earth. I'm not sure where you get the impression that the world see's Australia as Sydney but I politely disagree! When I was in Melbourne a friend and I stayed out a little to late and the trains and buses had stopped running for the day and we found ourselves without transportation. We started walking and a man driving a horse and cart delivering milk, he said he would give us a ride if we would help him on his route. So we took him up on his offer. I never saw such trust in all my life, people would put their money in the empty bottles and leave it on the stoop with a note asking the milk man what to leave. It was very enlightening that this kind of trust still existed in the world. I didn't want to leave, but with no parental guidance the gov. decided to return me home. This is why I shared the story, the Australian people were more kind to me than my own. I'm very proud to say I lived in Australia and will have a special place in my heart for the adventure of a life time.

    Jan 11, 2009
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  • mzdivine

    So sick of people's concept of Australia!----SYDNEy!



    How many times do I have to say that Sydney is ONE city in Australia!



    There is so much more to see than SYDNEY!!...(Sorry, Sydney!!)

    Jan 10, 2009
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  • madmanmo

    I was there in surfers about 1972 or so and yall are right, peace is the strength we all search for. Sometimes never achieved, it's so sad when someone always feels angry and mad at the world. The problem is the world doesn't really care, you are alone in your anger. To you emptyheart you are right, it was the chance of a lifetime to discover the ways of the world, I wouldn't change a thing!!

    Dec 18, 2008
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  • pheinix

    that is a beautiful story. i agree inner peace can only be found inside you.

    Dec 17, 2008
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  • wholehearted

    that is really beautiful about your dad being your first student. i am glad you know how to find inner peace.

    i practice meditation, but i am open to anything you would want to tell me.

    Nov 30, 2008
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  • madmanmo

    You are very right both you, emptyheart, jinda and my ~dar are so supportive. Without you I would be in a rubber room LOL

    Nov 29, 2008
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  • jinda

    sad you couldnt get residency here ....you would have been a great asset to our country....

    you and your sister did ok to make it on your own

    cheers

    Nov 16, 2008
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  • darlene

    Wow. Great post. Thanks for sharing your story.

    Nov 3, 2008
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  • emptyheart

    It sounds like you had a rough time. Do you wonder if you would be where you are now had things been different? I know even though my life has been far from perfect, the bad things as well as the good, made me who I am today. Good job on your first story....keep going!

    Nov 2, 2008
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