I Was Abused By My X Boyfriend

I was 18 when I agreed to move in with my ex boyfriend now I'm 19. Everything was going great at we had no problems. It all seemed nice and I would do anything to keep him happy.  I even started taking drug for him cause he told me if I truly loved him I would do it for him. I should have saw it coming then when we was using drugs with one of his friend his friend pushed me down on the bed and sexually assaulted. I was trying to fight back but all my ex boy was doing was seating there and encouraging him to keep going. Then 2 days ago it all came to a end he came home drunk and I told him that I lost the ring that he had got for me. He got pissed off and slapped me across the face 4 time and called me names before he left he pushed me down on the floor. Then told me that I have better find the ring before he got back or he was going to see to that I would be in the hospital . That scared me so I got all of my things together and had my Older sister come and get and take me back to my parents house where I know I can get clean and be safe. 

astewart astewart
18-21, F
4 Responses Mar 10, 2010

Don't let him talk you into getting back with him. If he hits you, he DOES NOT love you. You deserve better. He will only get worse.<br />
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I am so glad that you left! That took guts!

Don't let him talk you into getting back with him. If he hits you, he DOES NOT love you. You deserve better. He will only get worse.<br />
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I am so glad that you left! That took guts!

No woman deserves that. you deserve so much more from a relationship than him.

Thats so sad. Glad that you have got the scumbag out your life, no-one should to be treated like that. You deserve to be loved in a safe way, not in a controlling way, I hate men that do wicked things like that. I hope you find peace. (((Hugs)))