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By The Closest Person Alive....

This was a horrible betrayal and it rocked my world.  This is causing a lot of confusion, hurt and pain inside of me.  Not only did this hurt me, now it is bringing up everything I have ever gone through in my life.  It reminds me of a lot of things that I tried to block out that I am now forced to deal with.   I had been helping this person with her finances for almost two years.  I had to move out in March due to her emotional manlipuation and abuse.  She would constantly yell and scream at me.  I was treated quite badly, even though I was invited there to try to get my life back together.  It was supposed to help me, but I ended up taking care of her instead.  I was still helping her until this month, because I had to pay for my car.

I sent a real nice letter telling her that I was unable to send her the money anymore because of my car and my boss said that I had to have a car to keep my job.  My aunt came to my house and started yelling at me, calling me a 'fat *****' and said that I had no right to take care of myself.  She was hysterical and said that I was no longer her niece.  She also said that if I don't come up with the money that she was going to sue me and slander me.  After that, she came at me and tried to hit me.  I pushed her back and told her that she could not hit me.  I told her she needed to leave and that I was calling the cops.  She came at me again and I shut the garage on her and finally got her out of there.   I can't believe that she would hurt me like that.  I found out later that she was lying and manlipulating the family into believing that I was the bad guy.

Now I have paid the ultimate concequence for taking care of myself, I lost my aunt, whom I love with all of my heart.  I pray that she gains her mind back so we can love each other again.
compulsion2 compulsion2 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2010

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You're being bullied, and the people dong so dont care, and sometimes even a blood relative, is a user, and you need to face it, there can be...people out there, who will care and love you more, I hope you find those that really love and care for you, when those only seek you out for what they can get off you, and when you cannot provide it, they treat you badly, or worse, you need to see, that you deserve better and can have it too:) *hugs* you're a beautiful person...:)