My story is classic. I started an affair with this married man. He was charming but he lied from the very beginning. I just was taken in by this man. I have continued to stay with him. But his alcohol abuse is destroying our relationship. He could careless cause he wants to do whatever he wants. He excepts the world but gives very little in return. I know the letting go of him is for the best. My mental health is being tested everyday. So now I have just decide to ignore him. This is what he wants so I'm done. Go back to your ex wife and just leave me.