An Adhd Person Was Bullied. And, They Wanted To Know Why...

This is not my story... it's an answer to question I could not put down... becasue for some reason my computer or the site would not allow me to put this response down... I was having trouble not only putting it down, but finding it after I wrote it on a word processor. So, I decided it might be valuable enough... so here it is...

"Bullies should not do what they do… even if you have ADHD. If fact, they should not do it to anyone. The problem lies with the bully. Everything centers around inadequacy for a bully. A bully feels inadequate to do the things in life they need to do. They get jealous of anyone they perceive as being better than them. So, they know and do something they understand. Violence. They look at the ones they believe are better than them and look to see if they are weaker physically, so they can scare them into submission. This creates a high for the bully. No he/she feels adequate. Usually in their life, they have a dominant parent… or even parents…who constantly tell and show them they will never amount to anything… and use violence to harm them. Violence is a fact of life for most bullies. Since they have never been told that they can be adequate or even improve themselves, they believe they will never amount to anything because they are NOT good enough. But, they can be if they tear down everyone around them… just like their parent(s) do to them… And, that creates a bully… and the followers who are just as insecure as they are… looking for improvement in the social ladder. The last thing the followers want is to be picked on…so they become groupies. So, basically, bullies are weaker than you… or they perceive you are better, especially in aspects they believe they will never, ever have."
Sparrowhawk1161 Sparrowhawk1161
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Nov 28, 2012