Withholding The Bathroom As Punishment = A Large Bladder?

I spoke with a guy several years back that told me about his childhood and how his father made him and his brother and sister hold their pee when they were bad. They were not allowed to use the bathroom from several hours and if they wet their pants they got the belt, plus had to repeat it the next day. This took place in the 1960s in a small town. Everyone knew about it and no one thought anything of it. In fact if the punishment was on a school day the father would walk them to class and tell their teacher not to let them go at school that day. When he would pick them up he would ask the teacher if they caused any trouble. If they did he would add more time on. All their teachers want along with it because in those day other adults respected other parents wishes. The younger kids got a shorter time, but the older kids had to sometime endure it from the time they got up until they went to bed drinking a normal amount that day. Even if they didn’t pee themselves they would get another day if they didn’t stay still and kept complaining. He told me they would sometimes have to go shopping and walk around while holding it. He also told me he was sent to bed once with a full bladder and ended up peeing in a towel.

I didn't ask him, but I bet he has a large bladder and can hold it for hours on end.
bassman21 bassman21
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9 Responses Nov 25, 2011

Admittedly, a large bladder is an asset, but forced holding isn't the way to go about it. If you choose to hold voluntarily, that's a different matter.

As i went to school, it was like beardedpaul write, we did wear short shorts all the time, even it was cold.There was many experience, where boys was made to hold.I remember one of them, it was late afternoon and the boy in front of me asked the teacher at the beginn of a dopplelesson, if he could go to the loo. How ever the teacher saied "NO". The boy, he was about 15 to that time, beged the teacher to let him go, hi did not have a chance to go all day long and he need it very bad.The teacher saied "no again, a healthy boy at his age, should be able to hold it all day". The boy did take place and saied to the boy beside him, something like that his bladder is full to burst and it hurts so bad.The teacher could not hear what he saied, but he did punish the boy for speaking, he had to stand all the 2 lessons beside his chair.This boy did stand right in front of me, he could not stand still, his bare, slender boy legs was tight crossed, he rubbed his bony knees on each other, he could not hide how bad he needed to go and i had no mercy with him, i was not sorry for him, i was realy horny to see him suffer, to see him in his short shorts, to see his nacked, slender legs move from the need to pee, it was total arousing for me. Bad or? I think the teacher did feel the same, thats why he made him hold and stand beside his chair, to see him suffer, but a teacher should not use his authority to torture children.

I have ambivalent feelings about it; indignation and arousal at the same time.
Anyway, father should had go to the jail. Such a things are only good in fantasies or sexual play.

Child abuse was widely accepted by most societies only a generation ago. Beating your kids to discipline them was commonplace and keeping kids from using the toilet wasn't seen as unusual. Those parents from the older generation will of course end up in jail today in most parts of the world.

My feeling is (speaking as a former victim) is that this kind of abuse<br />
should be dealt with through the Criminal Law.<br />
It is a basic human right to go to the toilet when you need to do so!<br />
Any attempts to govern that adversely by adults is an offence!<br />
I am very angry with regard to the way that I was treated as a child!<br />
And, in many ways, I know that there is no way that I will ever<br />
get over it!<br />
Boarding schools - in Britain - in the 1960's!<br />
Welcome to my nightmare!<br />

I know what thats like, it still happens. I'm in my early teens and ive never been allowed to use the bathroom once im ready for bed. Still kept in diapers for it so i dont have an excuse. If im in trouble i can lose my bathroom privaleges during the day, they keep me in diapers for it so at least i dont have to worry about it but i still really hate it. My parents are loving and caring. i just dont understand it some times

It's an extreme form of control that the adults want to exert over children, and potentially very damaging.

I guess you're lucky to be turned on by having been through it, now you're old enough to make your own decision. It's bizarre form of punishment though.

Yes, this sounds all too familiar. I went to an all boys boarding school in West London in the 1960's and, in those days, to ask for permission to "Go to the lavatory" was always refused. We were forced to hold our urine for hours at a time and to wet our pants resulted in brutal and very painful beatings across the top of the thighs (note : we were all wearing shorts, so it was easy enough to strap our legs until our thighs were burning bright red !)<br />
As I grew older, I learned to adapt to this kind of treatment and my bladder muscle grew stronger. Also, the humiliation of not being allowed to exercise my natural right to empty my bladder became a sexual turn-on!<br />
By the time I reached my late teens and had become so much stronger, the previous bladder torture that had been imposed upon me now became an exercise in self-discipline and I started deliberately forcing myself to hold my urine up to bursting point, in order to recapture the feeling of those strong minded disciplinarian teachers who were so determined NOT to let me pee.<br />
The legacy has always stayed with me .......<br />
These days I go down to the pub and drink pints and pints of beer all night long without even once allowing myself to use the gents' toilet.<br />
Stagger home with a bursting bladder and then force myself to drink 2 litres of mineral water while still not allowing myself to pee.<br />
I enjoy the self-inflicted humiliation of forcing myself to hold my pee until my bladder is bulging out of my shorts and my lower abdomen is rock solid with ****.<br />
The more painful it gets, the more determined I am NOT to let myself urinate -<br />
- just like my teachers didn't let me at that cruel boarding school in London.<br />
"Please, Sir, may I go to the lavatory ?"<br />
"No, you may not : don't ask me again, the answer is no. I never allow boys to relieve themselves during school periods."<br />
I was man enough, even then, not to burst into tears........<br />
........ but there were times when I really thought that my bladder was going to burst <br />
out of my school shorts!<br />
It's funny isn't it ? In this day and age, treatment like that would be regarded as cruelty<br />
and prosecutions against the teachers would swiftly follow.<br />
In those days, however, we were made to believe that to ask to be allowed to empty <br />
our bladders was somehow a sign of weakness, an indication of lack of self discipline.<br />
The general mindset in those days was that little boys should not be allowed to empty their bladders - and that they should be ashamed of themselves if they asked to do so.<br />
This is a very strange state of affairs, given that the urinary system is designed to remove<br />
excess water from the bloodstream and pass it down the ureters into the muscular<br />
bladder. The bladder is only a temporary storage point : if it is not permitted to be<br />
emptied it stretches until it becomes painfully full : that's a challenge for any small boy<br />
to cope with when he feels too ashamed to ask for permission to do something that<br />
nature expects all of us to do. The bladder can only hold so much at a time : to deny<br />
relief of the bladder is simply sheer torture, whether it be a child or an adult.

Thanks for sharing your story. There have been several reports of such abuse in boarding type schools here in the USA and some within the last few years. Most have been teen boot camps where troubled teens are sent. There are still isolated cases of children being denied the bathroom in public schools. I hear that some schools give as few as 2 breaks in a 7 hour day to 3rd graders. School in poor minority areas tend to have strict rules to cut down on fights and vandalism. "Mountain park academy" a religious teen boot camp was closed a few years back because of several lawsuits. One boy that attended there claimed they were only allowed to use the toilet twice a day, they were watched and timed. If they didn’t go in the allotted time they were pulled off the toilet and had to wait till the next break. They also were no allowed to go at night and alarms were set to make sure they didn’t escape. If they wet themselves they would be subjected to what they called a "GI shower" where they would be scrubbed with wire brushes under hot water and well has humiliation. I have not looked in a long time, but they used to have all the court documents online with all the details.

Things were defiantly worst in the old days both at school and at home. I have come across several stories of kids being subjected to extreme bladder discipline that I couldn’t even imagine going though. I personally witnessed kids in the 80s losing their restroom breaks for the whole day as punishment. I have also seen several kids in public being refused the restroom in public and in places like church.

There is no doubt in my mind that there adults out there that get off sexually watching children hold their bladders and begging just turns them on all the more.

With others it's just this belief that children need strict discipline. Most adults pee 3 or more times a day at work yet they expect an 8 year old to get by on 2 to 3 pee's in a 7 hour school day, even though they have much smaller and sensitive bladders.