In Need of Opinions:(I am seventeen years old currently in a relationship with a guy who is 21 years old. When i met him he was the sweetest most innocent guy, he was scared out of his tree to even kiss me. Turned out he was a virgin. After a couple months i took his virginity (i had already been with 3 other guys) and we have been going steady and happy for the past year. The only problem within our relationship is that when he drinks he blacks out, never hits me or anything of that sort but we get in really dumb fights that end up getting pretty heated and serious. One night when we were drinking we got in a huge fight and i "broke up with him" in the heat of the moment, i left his *** behind with this girl and somehow ended up with his bestfriend. Me and my boyfriends best friend ended up staying at my friend alexs house, nothing happened between us what so ever he just needed to stay somewhere that night. That same night my boyfriend let this chick that he has known for quite sometime (its weird but her mom dated his dad and they even lived together back when he was a sweet little virgin) but anyways apparently she had no where to stay that night and stayed there. I knew she stayed there and questioned him about it now that i think about it he seemed kinda uncomfortable with me questioning him but said she stayed in the other room. I just found out yesterday that they ended up having sex that night, he promises me he can hardly remember it and has regreted it ever since and it has ate him up inside. he said he couldnt hurt me, and knew that one day he was going to ask me to marry him and that he would have to confess but just couldn't break it to me. I tried to break up with him but he started crying and said i was the best thing that ever happened to him, and he couldnt ask for more, and if i could just give him one more chance he would spend the rest of his life making it up to me. I think i trust it wont happen again, but just put yourself in my position, regardless you personal experience with men, and picture an actual genuine sweetheart and if he begged and cried to you for one more chance, would you?
kristie66 16-18, F 17 Responses 0 Jun 25, 2007