My Husband CheatedI feel totally lost! So my husband met this girl on chat 2 years ago and started talking. I didnt think anything of it cause she didnt live close by. Well she was a mutual friend of a family member so they continued to talk and get to know each other. Well after a year and a half of talking she decided she wanted to come visit. I didnt really know what to think so just agreed. The visit went well and I really liked her... well I decided that she should move over here and of course my husband had no ob
Everyone told me to watch my back and that my husband wanted her and that she was here to steal my husband. Once again I reassured everyone they were wrong and that I trusted him not to do anything like that.
I started to become close to our roommate finally and started realizing some things were off... she was way to devoted to my husband and it rubbed me the wrong way. But every time I said any thing about it they acted like I was way off ba
Well the day before mothers day was the biggest shock of all. I found out that this whole time they were in love and sleeping together. When she first moved in my husband convinced me to let her sleep in our bed at night. Found out that no matter where I was or what I was doing that didnt stop them from doing anything. This whole time I was lied to and betrayed. They slept together 3 times during the move and countless others after the move.
My husband told me that he couldnt live with the guilt anymore so he told me and that he wanted to make things work. Even though he told me that he wants to be with me he still flirts with her and wants to see her naked and all the above! Which really makes my blood boil. I have even been told by both of them that my insecurities are my problem and it has nothing to do with them... which I am sorry but arent you the one that slept with my husband and arent you the one that ****** her behind my back?
I believed him even though I was really hurt. The first night he told me he was so sweet and loving and now I dont exist again.
I have forgiven my roommate as much as I can but have no trust in her when it comes to my husband and her being alone. She doesnt understand that and it bothers her.... but can you blame me?
Not only that but now my husband goes into all these chat rooms and flirts with all these girls and talks to them but doesnt tell them that he is married or anything... He would rather get these girls to flash him and call them beautiful and babe... not only that but anytime I ask him about it he gets super defensive.
What am I supposed to do? I wanted to make it work but now he is chating up all these other girls and not even giving me the time of day. He dont hug me, kiss me, or even have sex with me. I feel like I am going insane cause the more he talks with these other girls the more I feel betrayed and I even dream about finding him cheating on me again..
Any advice? I feel like I am going to explode
meyermom3 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 Jul 19, 2012