He Had An Affair And I Want Revenge!I won't bore you with all the details - so here are the highlights.
>I suspected he was having an affair and confronted him. Of course, he denied it. This went on for 2 years until the other woman called me. It was also an attempt to get me to leave him since he wouldn't leave me for her.
>I reached out to family. They encouraged us to try to work things out. We met at 15, married at 23 and have been married 18 years now.
>My husband expressed his love for me, said he was sorry and wanted to work it out. I believed him.
>He lost his job. Oh by the way, they worked together. I asked if he lost his job because of her. He denied it. But I suspect otherwise.
>She continued to call me. Said they were still seeing each other. He denied it. Fed up I went to her house. He was there. I slapped her and was arrested for assault - spent the night in jail. Have a misdemeanor on my record. I have never been in trouble before. I am embarrassed and ashamed.
>He still wants to work it out. I accepted him back.
>I am miserable. I am disappointed in myself for taking him back. I am disappointed in myself for still loving him. I am disappointed, disappointed, disappointed in myself.
>Everyday I look at him I am disgusted. He cheated on me. Treated my life sh**. He is out of work. And, to be honest, I don't know if the affair is over!
So, I want revenge. I know it's not right, but somehow I think it may make me feel better. I created a profile on Match.com and on an interracial site for white men dating black women. It is what it is.
Pray4change 41-45, F 6 Responses 2 Jan 10, 2013