Almost 9 Months Pregnant and My Husband Cheated!I am almost 25 years old and was with my husband for almost 10 years. We had been married for 2 years and I am almost 9 months pregnant. In the begining of April of this year he all of a sudden had a need to go out with single guy friends that he just met. He would tell me they were going to work meetings and it was a guy thing. He would travel north of our home to hang with the guys by train. I would have to pick him up at 3 in the morning from the train after he had gone out drinking. So at first I just thought he was worried about becoming a dad. Little by little things started to change and he didn't want to do anything wih me AT ALL!! He found more and more reasons by the day to not be home. One morning after he had gone out all night with the GUYS his phone was beeping like crazy and he was hung over and nasty. So I went to check his phone and he freaked out. Well I found out from him it was another woman. Just a friend he told me!! I was over reacting and being crazy! Se we had a hard few days!! Our cell phone bill came and I was able to see that he was talking to this woman every day all day long. I showed him the bill and he got mad and said he needed a break to take a drive and would be back. I check the bill again as soon as he got in the car for the drive he was on the phone with her. A few days later I had some issues and was rushed to the hospital. He came to the hospital and was texting this woman the entire time I was in the hospital. The next day the doctor had me stay home on bed rest just for the day. My husband took off from work and went out for the day alone and it just so happened he went to the same town the woman lived in. All hell broke loose that afternoon. I packed my stuff and stayed with family for a few weeks. We tryed to talk things out day by day. In the end I got an answer from him like this: Something about this woman is intersting to me but I didn't sleep with her. He told me they were just friends! I wanted so bad to think he was telling me he truth but I had a sick feeling in my belly that said he was not telling me the truth. We did decide to split and I live in our home and he has moved back in with his parents. They think its my fault for not giving him time to figure out what he wanted out of life. His parents life so close to my home I can see the drive way from my front door. A few weeks ago and again a few days ago I was able to see my soon to be ex-husband with that woman at his parents house. I would never want him back but it just made me so mad to see it. I guess before I knew I was right but never saw for my own eyes. I can see for my own eyes and it makes me mad. I was nothing but a great wife and did all that I could to make him happy and I guess it was not enough. So the result is I will be having his child and my life will be changed forever because of him. He can just move on like our life together never happened most of the time. He will see our daughter when he wants and the rest of the time he will be single. I will never have that chance... I will always be a mom and I don't regret it at all it just stinks that he makes all the moves and I am the one that has a new life. My family tells me don't worry he will get his. They tell me life moves on and I will find a great man who loves me and will respect me they way I should have been respected from day one. Its just so hard to see the light!!
Vic1030 21-25, F 12 Responses 1 Aug 19, 2007