He Cheated But Where Still Together

He cheated and I never left him he wanted me to leave him Becuz he knew he done wrong and he wanted me to have better, but I never left and where still together? Sometimes I feel dumb for staying even though things with us aren't that bad except him sucking at txtin me back
Hannah831 Hannah831
18-21, F
2 Responses Sep 9, 2012

I was in the exact situation. It made me so insecure. I become the crazy girlfriend I was scared of ever becoming. <br />
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At this point he feels like he has you for good. He doesn't feel like he has to make the effort to keep you anymore. He cheated on you and you stayed. The childish thing to do would be get him back by cheating on him or start talking to other guys to show him that you have other options. I've tried both and they did the exact opposite of what I was trying to achieve. Our relationship is totally messed up right now. <br />
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The adult thing to do is take a break. Let him know that it still bothers you and you're not okay with it. Tell him you still want to be with him but that you'll need time. When you're over feeling sad, angry, and stupid get back with him. Then start working on trusting him again. I'm sure he'll try his hardest to gain it back and even stop taking you for granted too. This is what I should have done but it's too late for me.

I was in the exact situation. It made me so insecure. I become the crazy girlfriend I was scared of ever becoming. <br />
<br />
At this point he feels like he has you for good. He doesn't feel like he has to make the effort to keep you anymore. He cheated on you and you stayed. The childish thing to do would be get him back by cheating on him or start talking to other guys to show him that you have other options. I've tried both and they did the exact opposite of what I was trying to achieve. Our relationship is totally messed up right now. <br />
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The adult thing to do is take a break. Let him know that it still bothers you and you're not okay with it. Tell him you still want to be with him but that you'll need time. When you're over feeling sad, angry, and stupid get back with him. Then start working on trusting him again. I'm sure he'll try his hardest to gain it back and even stop taking you for granted too. This is what I should have done but it's too late for me.