I've been dating a guy for a few months. He was wonderful. He just finished his MBA, owns a home, has a wonderful job and is the sweetest man I could have asked for. After a few months of dating, we decided to seal the deal and make our relationship exclusive. We had sex and it was wonderful! We connected on a whole new level that I had not anticipated. It was beautiful and left me wanting more of him. A few short hours later he had to leave town as planned to visit his son in another state. He hadn't talked to me much that day but I figured he was busy since it had been a while since he had seen the baby. When he returned home he was still a little distant so I asked him if everything was okay. I was in for the shock of my life and I didn't even see it coming. Apparently the night he got there he was feeling down because he had missed so much of his sons development. His ex laid her feelings out on the table and in a moment of vulnerability he had sex with her. Obviously, I am heartbroken. How could he have done something like that after what we had just had not even 20 hours prior? He is torn, hurt and confused but so am I! I really wish people would have more thought behind their actions and take their commitments more seriously. He turned out to be just another waste of time and emotion.
MissCuriosity MissCuriosity
22-25, F
2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

There are people who do not realise the consequences of their actions and the impact they have on others. And when it suits their values ,ethics and integrity fly out of the window. Personally I think your better off knowing now, however it's not easy to deal with this kind thing never is. Good luck

Oh, He sounds so spectacularly... weak.
Sorry :~(

I agree. Pretty unfortunate.