I Was Dumped By My Girlfriend
I have been dating this woman for 2 months and she broke it off with me, because she didn't feel the same chemistry anymore. I saw it coming but I wanted to atleast try and work it out. I have strong feelings for her and even said "I love you" but she had a big wall up because of a really bad relationship in her past. So, I don't think she was ready to go to the next level. I was willing to wait it out and see if she would fully open up to me, but I guess we didn't have enough in common. Aries and Taurus don't mix well.
Previously I had spent the last 5 years single, recovering from a 1 year relationship. This latest relationship was good for me and I was very sad and crying for a couple days, losing a friend and part of you is hard to cope with. I feel alot better now that it's a week later. One thing I figured out is that I really like having a girlfriend and am willing to put the work into a relationship. I wonder how long I should wait until finding a new girlfriend? Or if I will want to get back together with her. I need someone who is optimistic, affectionate and open to a relationship. At my age , 35, there are alot of people with baggage which makes it hard to start a new healthy relationship, but I have high hopes.
