I Am In My 40s & Mother Continues To Abuse MeI’ve had to cut off all ties with my mother which is almost impossible to do because weeks later she shows up at my door apologizing and manipulating me back into her life. I am so done with her emotional abuse and last week she was beating on me.
She has a borderline personality disorder and I think OCD as well, and she’s dillusional, she thinks she is smarter, better and above her family and treats her grown chidren like extensions of herself, and if we even minimally let her down (miss her phone call, etc) she verbaly bashes us on voice mail and in person.
She accuses me of every evil under the sun.
She is too narcisistict to get help from a professional, because she is smarter than they are.
She also admits she has paranoia. We her children have no idea of what to do with her.
Its so sad because she lives her life alone due to not being able to mananage even ONE relationship in a healthy way. She has to talk down to people.
Anyone have any similar experience withe their parents??
I am a survivor and am lucky and blessed because I love and respect all of my 6 grown children. I know my mother is mentally ill and she is also aware to a point of her havoc and pain she causes. She is alone and it makes us sad