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Happy Ending...new Beginning

I was in a long distance relationship for 7 years. We met when we were 16. I am from California and he is from Germany. We got to know on another for about 9 months before he had to go back to Germany. We decided to give the long distance a shot. We visited each other once a year when we could. Our computers became our companions and our phones were guarded from other family members lol...

We grew up over the years and we managed to stay best friends and more. After 4 years of the long distance, he proposed :D We kept on focusing on our schooling and finally we finished ( well he did, I'm still working on my bachelors). In December of 2010 we got married and he now lives here with me. The experience was torturous at times...but now that its over we realize the strength we gained.

We are starting a new chapter now and at times we get overwhelmed with the new experiences, but we always stop and remember what we've been through before. Long distance relationships are hard, but sometimes they work out pretty well :)
Mausi16 Mausi16 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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same story. she is in the USA. i am in germany. hoping ours will work out too...

Hi, me and my bf (ex now) met last night. this is the 1st time I truly realize how beautiful our love is... Seeing his face, I can tell he endures so many pains, pressures and responsibilities. He feels painful that he can't take good care of me and he doesn't want his personal issues effect my life as well. And I feel guilty if I let him endure any more sadness. So I let him go. It's life separate us. But our love is beyond what it used to be. We do the best for each other by letting each go pursue our current aims.<br />
In the last hour in love, we held each other hands, talked about our love and said what we wanted. 'I love you' 'I love you more' kissed, hugged and then said goodbye.<br />
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So you were born for each other. Hold your beloved partners' hands til the rest of your life. I love to see such happiness in life.

Thank you both very much. Its been 4 months now since then and we're still doing very well. We have had some stuggles with adjusting to being together so much now. Its funny how you dream of being together during your LDR and when you are together all the time...its a bit shock lol. But I am loving every minute of it. I wish you two the best in your relationships and hope that things work out. :)

we've in love for 3 yrs in we've in distance love for 5 months. But, he called and said should we be friends? It's sad that we have our own pressure in life and he can't tolerate our love pressure. we're defeated by difficulties.... truthfully, I'm happy for you two. Wish your new stage will be happy 4ever.

we've in love for 3 yrs in we've in distance love for 5 months. But, he called and said should we be friends? It's sad that we have our own pressure in life and he can't tolerate our love pressure. we're defeated by difficulties.... truthfully, I'm happy for you two. Wish your new stage will be happy 4ever.

ahhhh... thats so nice... :) i wish for the same thing for me and my bf... :) best wishes to you new life together... :)