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I Was Molested By My Uncle

Who Will Cry For The Little Girl?

By: speaksoft
Written on February 12th, 2013
When I was a little girl about 5-10 years old I was molested and sexually assaulted by a number of sickos...including my uncle. I didn't tell my mom until I got older I didn't have a supportive nothing, my dad denied me and was a heroin addict although he was in the Navy when i reached adulthood I stayed in abusive relationships, I didn't know what love was or wht it felt like...I feel the sexual abuse destroyed my life who I was or going to be ripped from me... at some point I would have flashbacks and cry other days I wouldn't think about it...but I will never be normal because of wht happened to me.
By: speaksoft
Age: 26-30 , Female
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    Thomasanonymous
    Thomasanonymous

    If you still dont know what love is here is my definition ( a quote from E. Fromm)
    "Love isn't something natural. 
    Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. 
    It isn't a feeling, it is a practice.
    Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. 
    If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. 
    A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision?
    Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. 
    Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love."

    To sum it up love is a decision and simply a constantly conscience decision to protect the love one whether they know it or not and not seeking a reward from them at all.

    I am a guy, so i understand if you dont like that a guy is trying to console you when you had so many abusive males in your life but please dont give up.

    hers what i said in another molestation story that will help you if you follow it
    " If your still hung up on this experience dont use it as a crutch but as strength. BECAUSE you made it through you are stronger and will live life to the fullest, you are more sensitive to injustices, you can help the many naive young women , you are alive and have great coping skills, so please never give up and live! A good quote i live by is "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it" So please react as if you conquered the toughest trial you will ever go through and have a new found strength Please do not let this ever beat you down!"

    The men in your life may be mentally weak sickos, but that does not mean you are weak from their weakness. Please live with confidence that you got though this trial please dont give up.

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    CuriousIronButterfly
    CuriousIronButterfly

    I can understand what you went through. But don't let it get to you. You need to accept it and you'll. do it. Everything needs time. Take care and stay strong.

    Feb 25
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    Arcentine
    Arcentine

    I know it's hard to recover from what others did to us, but it wasn't your fault in any way. if you ever need to talk, i'm a good listener.

    Feb 12
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    rickibrat2
    rickibrat2

    Mine was from about 5 years old to be 8 years old that I was being used by him, and all the family knew it and did nothing to stop it or help me.

    Feb 12
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      speaksoft
      speaksoft

      Thanks for understanding

      Feb 12
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