I Was Molested...

Almost 2 years ago, I was making out with my boyfriend at the time and it was good until he tried to finger me. I tried pushing him away and he just held me down and did it anyway, it happened twice and both times he just held down with all his might, I never did anything because I was confused and scared I never thought you could be molested by your boyfriend but now I'm scared of even getting to know a guy because all I can think is that its going to happen again, I haven't told my parents ive only told three of my close friends. I'm scared to tell anyone else and I really don't want to talk to a specialist but everyone tells me I should.

Giggles12 Giggles12
18-21, F
1 Response Feb 15, 2009

It can be really hard and scary to talk to a professional - but they do just want to help.<br />
Its horrible that you went through this - but you cant let this jerk get in the way of a happy, healthy intimate relationship. There are good men out there and you deserve to be loved by someone who respects you and your body.<br />
So maybe talking to someone would be a good idea...would you be worse off?