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I Was Paddled At School

I Volunteered For A Paddling

By: BadPam
Written on January 23rd, 2013
By: BadPam
Age: 51-55 , Female
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    robboro

    Well written acount Pam. Does paddling still happen as much in US scools nowadays? Corporal punishment is totally banned here in the UK, has been rof about 20 yrs. The severity surprised me, especially in other accounts of students getting 30 or more swats.

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      BadPam

      There are over 30 states that still paddle, but they are all in the South. My state of New York stopped nearly thirty years ago. The usual dose is from three to five swats, and that is more than plenty because they are applied extremely hard. The only time I saw someone get 25 swats was in Catholic grammar school, where the nuns were able to do pretty much what they wanted.

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    Nikki2190

    My dad told me that Texas had it also. And that it is one punishment they should not have take out of school.

    Jun 3
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      BadPam

      Texas is still known for its paddling, although some schools have removed it from their methods of punishment. In fact in the year 2000 Texas broke the record by paddling a total of 75,000 students, boys and girls, in that single year. My state outlawed paddling before my girls were born, so they will never know the joy of getting their jeans whacked by the principal!

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    oneofnine

    Brave woman - but sensible too, I think. It got everything over straight away.

    Mar 29
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      BadPam

      Yeah, but I didn't count on the several days of soreness whenever I sat on a hard school seat.

      Mar 29
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      Lninwa

      I have a feeling you were a hero to the other students especially the girls. I doubt the boys would have volunteered like you. I bet no one asked to have all 6 spanks at one time.

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      BadPam

      Actually very few people outside my friends and those in my homeroom who saw me return to class with tears in my eyes. It's not like word of my paddling went around the school like a shockwave. But as for taking six swats at once, if they knew what the paddling was going to be like I'm sure they would not have asked for it! As for me, it was my own ignorance of paddling that made me volunteer. I didn't realize that getting the paddle entailed being launched to the moon with every swat! I envisioned a sort of spanky-spank that would hurt my feelings more than my butt. Wow, was I wrong!

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    tripdelta3

    Great story! Thanks for sharing. I grew up in upstate New York and they also paddled kids. Lucky for me I never got spanked beyond 4th grade - and the few spankings in school that I got were hand spankings from teachers. If there was a big problem when I was in grade school the teacher would call my mom - and she would be waiting with the hairbrush when I got home.

    In 8th grade a kid named Andrew got paddled by the science teacher right in front of the whole class. He was bawling like a baby. It wasn't just six, more like 15-20 over his pants. That teacher put the fear of God into me. I was a perfect science student the entire year.

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    Lninwa

    Very excellent detailed story. That was not a spanking but a beating. There should never be bruises.

    Mar 13
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      BadPam

      Bruises are a common result of school paddlings. They are almost expected. Of course not every paddling results in bruises, but most do from what I understand. The paddle is usually swung very hard as a matter of policy, and of course there is some damage done to the hide. In fact in the South, where paddling is still widely employed, there is a special term for these resulting bruises--"Reminders." When you see your bottom in a mirror, or even try to sit down, you are "reminded" of your paddling and hopefully reminded of what you had done to earn it, and not do it again! Many schools refer to these punishments as "spankings." They are not! They are paddlings. Way different.

      Mar 13
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      paddlednikki

      By the time you got home most of it faded anyway.. I would have tons red splotches on my cheeks and looked like I got a beating.. A look later would show almost nothing.. Some people bruise easier.. I never had a purple bruise that was much to speak of.. I wouldn't of told anyway.. The result of telling would of involved me showing people my butt to prove it.. No thanks.. Take your punishment and move on.. Next time don't get caught.. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

      Mar 14
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      BadPam

      No, Nikki, they weren't faded by the time I got home! Refer to the photo in my album. It looked pretty much like that! But of course Mom knew about my paddling because the principal phoned her before he proceeded. However, she didn't do anything except look at the damage and tell me not to do anything so stupid again!

      Mar 14
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      paddlednikki

      Yep.. The bulls-eye effect.. Looks like a paddling..

      Mar 14
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      MichelleAnneWaters

      Your mom didn't spank you again? Luckier than I was. I don't know if the bruises would have faded by the next day, but after my mom's hairbrush or dad's belt got done, there was no fading for at least a couple days.

      Mar 14
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      BadPam

      I kept checking myself in the mirror, and those bulls-eyes didn't fade for several days, although they didn't hurt so much by then. And Mom put cold packs on my butt to help the healing process. But as for my mom's hairbrush, we stayed red for about three days and couldn't sit down at all!

      Mar 14
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      deanjames

      A heavier paddle swung hard should leave bruises, and school paddling always did. At home, any spanking with real wood left marks. Maybe it was genetic, but everyone in my family had marks that lasted at least a few days. But it wasn't as painful as it looked. Not all bruises are equal. Could be deeper, or just a surface discoloration. Depends on the weight of the spanking implement and how hard it's applied. Also, how often were you spanked. I think getting spanked regularly, you might not bruise as easily.

      Mar 14
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      BadPam

      Yeah, when your behind sports those red and purple concentric circles, everyone knows you've been paddled! There's no mistaking those decorations.

      Mar 14
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    spankedjenny

    Pam, your story was so well written I almost felt as if I saw it happen. Were it me it would not have ended in school though. My Mom would have spanked the daylight's out of me as well.

    Mar 13
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      BadPam

      My mom's policy was that of fairness. If I got paddled (or otherwise punished) at school, there was no reason to spank me again at home. I had been duly punished already and hopefully learned my lesson. My younger sister Gretchen received two swats for skipping detention, and apart from a finger-wagging from Mom, the matter was closed. My friends assured me that my mom was the exception to the rule because they would all have been spanked upon arrival at home, sore bottom or no.

      Mar 13
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      spankedjenny

      There's no way my Mom would have not punished me for smoking, skipping class and simply gotten in trouble in school to begin with. She would have told me I was spanked in school for violating THEIR rules and that I was getting a spanking from her for violating HER rules

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      Lninwa

      Pam, I agree with your mom's fairness.

      Mar 13
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      paddlednikki

      The school didn't call my Mom.. I always got the referral that told my punishment out of the mail before she got home.. hehehehehe. I for sure didn't tell Mom I got a spanking at school.. Don't know if she would of given me a whipping, but I wasn't going to find out..

      Mar 14
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      BadPam

      Most of the ladies I talked to who were paddled as schoolgirls said their parents got phone calls instead of notes. Depending on the school, the principal either asked them for their blessing, or simply informed them that their kid is either about to get paddled, or just did. One of the ladies said she got out of a paddling when the principal asked her mom if he could proceed and the mom said he certainly may not! Not for such a stupid infraction anyway. So the girl was free to go with her heinie intact.

      Mar 14
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    Yurina

    Oh yeah, ciggies are bad for sitting! At least your family didn't do what mine do for a school spanking: "Young lady you know the rules! You get spanked at school, you get twice that at home!" And sometimes it isn't just Mother whacking away at my bare bottom, its Aunts, or even Gramma!

    Mar 13
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    aussiemonsta

    Ouch i feel for you. Growing up if i got in trouble i was made to stand in the middle of the lounge room until my father got home. The wait was the worst thing as it gave me time to think of what was coming. And without fail as soon as he walked through the door and saw me standing there he would fetch the thick wooden cane and crack me across the back of the legs. 1st hit always dropped me to my knee's raiseing a thick dark welt across the back of each leg and then came that cane across my *** until i couldnt sit down thanks to the pain. I have to say i was happy when he started to just backhand me and make me stand up and fight him after i turned fifteen. And the day of my seventeenth birthday i walked in the door and cracked him right in the jaw. Never got hit after that :)

    Mar 13
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    paddlednikki

    A paddling was always a option vs suspension at my high school.. I always got the swats.. I don't remember a limit.. I think it was 10 a day.. I nor anyone I knew ever got 10 at once.. 5 was the pretty common amount used in High School

    Mar 12
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      BadPam

      As far as I know, paddling was not an option at our school. I asked for it because I didn't want to face six long days of detention. There was really no bargaining with the principal, but I guess he liked me enough to give me what I asked for. I think the usual paddling was between three and five spanks.

      Mar 13
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      paddlednikki

      Our paddles were big too.. I am unsure the measurement, but were much longer than the ones they used in jr high.. They hurt more cause of it

      Mar 13
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      BadPam

      I would estimate our paddle was about two feet long and six inches wide. Naturally I wasn't measuring it at the time, but it felt like I was being swatted with a diving board. Some of the other ladies at work who were paddled as schoolgirls say their paddles were similar, probably whipped up in wood shop class.

      Mar 13
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      paddlednikki

      Ours were way more narrow, but just as long.. I don't know where ours came from.. Maybe the boys in shop made them.. I didn't ask.. They used to get broke often though

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      BadPam

      I have no idea if our paddle broke and had to be replaced because paddlings were very private and rarely talked about. Judging from the number of signatures and messages on our paddle, it seems to have been in use for a long time without breaking. Remember, our principal was not as quick to paddle as some of the other administrators in the area, some of whom were absolute fanatics when it came to paddling.

      Mar 14
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      alfred2219

      four inches is a common width and it was amazing that they ever broke. But as Nikki noted, they often did. Sometimes while in use, other times if they fell to the floor. Knowing what we all know now, one would wonder about administrators who were eager. Firm reluctance would seem to me to be the more appropriate emotion for the Assistant Principals whose job it was to spank.

      Mar 15
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    coolsmile

    thanks for sharing - you write well.

    Something good happened !

    Mar 4
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      BadPam

      Thanks, Coolsmile! I guess a blistered bottom was a good tradeoff for healthy lungs.

      Mar 4
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      coolsmile

      could not agree more as I work around lung cancer patients.

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      coolsmile

      Most important thing about this is how your teachers behave ! where ever they are, i take my hat off for them

      Mar 4
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      BadPam

      Yeah I admit the teachers were pretty good, except maybe for the woman who turned me in. I wanted to kick her right in the skirt. But again, my principal was very nice and understanding even when he was paddling me!

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    PaulKto

    wonderful experience. Don't know if I would have volunteered for a paddling though.

    Mar 2
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      BadPam

      It seems to me that most students do select the paddle when faced with a choice of that or, say, In School Suspension. We rarely had choices back when I was in school, not like today when many schools offer paddling as an option. As I indicate in my story, there was no real official choice except that I asked for something else besides detention, which at six days for ninety minutes a day sounded too long for my comfort. I thought the paddle would be quicker. It actually was, if you don't count the long-lasting soreness!

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      PaulKto

      Oh, I understand why you accepted the paddling. I am just not sure what I would have done in that situation.

      Mar 2
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      PaulKto

      We're the same age and never had an option. If I was getting paddled then I got paddled. Even in school.

      Mar 2
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      BadPam

      Same with us, really. I guess he let me take another option because he liked me and I had an excellent school record--I only got detention three years earlier for throwing food. As you can see, originally he had no intention of paddling me and tried to talk me out of it! But stubborn redhead that I am, I would not be dissuaded.

      Mar 2
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      PaulKto

      I thought that was interesting when I read it. Surprising really. Of course, my mother would have gotten paddled again when I got home and she wouldn't have let me do the extra curricular activity any way.

      Mar 2
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      BadPam

      Most of my friends assured me that they would have been spanked again when they got home, or further punished in some way. My mom was fair in that she felt I had been justly taken care of in school and there was no need for her to punish me more when I got home. Besides, take a look at the pic in my album. It's not me but I looked pretty much like that after I was paddled. How can you have the heart to spank a bottom again in that condition?

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      PaulKto

      Oh, she would have waited for the bruises do fade before paddling me herself. And your right, I couldn't spank a bruised bottom like that. But I'd like to spank that bottom.

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      td2012

      They didn't give choices where I went to school, but I'd have taken any detention over a paddling. The pain was bad enough, but it was even more the embarrassment I wanted to avoid. The paddle wasn't used that often, so when someone got it, the news spread quickly all over the school.

      We didn't get it at home after swats at school. If the paddle at school didn't get the message across, I don't know what would.

      Mar 2
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      BadPam

      In some schools news of a paddling spread like wildfire. In others very few students actually knew about it because it was so private. In my case it was surmised that I had been paddled, having been called down to the office and returning with red eyes. The boys seemed interested to know what it was like, and some of them began to ask me for dates. They probably wanted to know all the lurid details.

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      td2012

      That was a fact with me. When a girl at school got paddled, which was not very often, I thought that made her special, almost like a celebrity - though I doubt that was fame she wanted. It definitely made me take notice, and I was always curious to know more about what it was like for her. I saw a few girls in tears after a paddling, and that effected me strongly. I've never actually been in favor of the practice.

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      BadPam

      I'm not in favor of it either, believe me! But it does keep some students in line--others don't really care. I know many girls throughout the local school system who were paddled, and as far as I know it never caused a sensation. With me it was just some gossip, but hardly the talk of the school.

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    DAW2012

    Wow and was that your first and last paddling at school and if you had to do it all over again would you still have chosen the paddle? And your mom did not punish you for smoking you were very lucky.

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      BadPam

      Yes, that was my first and last ever. I know some kids used to be paddled every year like clockwork, probably because some people never learn. Looking back, I think I still would have chosen the paddle over such a long detention, but most likely I would have taken the installment method as he suggested. Interestingly, my mom was a nurse and didn't say I couldn't smoke, but that it was a very unhealthy habit to get into. My act of stupidity was to bring the cigarettes to school and smoking them in the girls' loo, knowing full well that I could possibly be paddled if I was caught! But I had the confidence of a teenager--I won't get caught. I'm too clever. Thanks for reading!

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    kent1973

    Quite a vivid account of your VERY pain-full experience. It probably took more than a week, maybe closer to 10 days before the bruising went away entirely. Although school paddlings definitely worked on many offenders and almost definitely deterred many others, it has been largely legislalated away, and for better or worse one reason is because of the real damage the traditional wooden school paddle can do in the hands of an inexperienced school administrator or teacher--think hitting the coccyx, for example.
    Where I came from school paddlings were given with a paddle shaped very thick piece of leather. Though it stung incredibly, yet it was not rigid and so did not cause as much deep down bruising like you described and I experienced albeit not in a school setting.

    Feb 21
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      BadPam

      Kent, I still can't believe how much that hurt--I still can feel the pain in my mind thirty-seven years after the fact!
      True, you do have to know how to paddle properly so you don't injure the kid permanently. The routine of "taking aim" was more than a show--there was a practical reason for it. As you read, I was wearing a rather puffy pleated skirt which easily could have hidden the contours of my cheeks if the principal didn't know exactly where they were! And although they hurt like the devil himself, he managed to get all six spanks right on the place where I sit-the lower butt, to avoid hitting my tailbone. However, this added to my discomfort when I sat all day on hard school seats! I must admit, he was very good at his task! He was also very kind to me all through what he probably knew was a terrible ordeal for me. As much as he didn't want to, he had to paddle me with the same force as he did anyone else. It was only fair.
      Most paddles in my school area were made of wood, most likely wipped up in wood shop. Some had holes or slashes, but ours did not. A very infamous paddle was used in one of the Buffalo schools--it was a sawed-off canoe paddle with big holes drilled into it. I'm glad I didn't go to Buffalo! But one grade-school principal in our district used a rubber hose rather than a paddle. Now the school is named after her, so apparently the administration approved of her methods.
      Obviously girls were shown no mercy when it came to being paddled. At my lunch table at work we somehow got into the conversation of school paddling, and just about every woman at the table said she had been paddled as a schoolgirl. It's funny, but many people from other states think New York didn't paddle. My behind says different!
      Thanks for a great response!
      Pamela Ann

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    megan1975

    Hi Pam, Your account is very well written. It has persuaded me to share my own experience here.

    Feb 2
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      BadPam

      Well I'm glad you took the inspiration! Brought back memories, huh? They seem to like your story too--longer and more detailed. Thanks for sharing!
      Pamela Ann

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    KendraBlack

    Hi Pamela!,An excellently written account of your school chastisement. As you know I caught it twice at school myself. I still can't believe knowing stories of your mother that you didn't catch it again at home but I guess she felt your bottom had paid enough. I was not as fortunate. When I was paddled in the 4th grade, she was waiting at the front door with a switch in hand. In the 8th since the paddling took place after school, we girls swore each other to secrecy to save our bottoms further abuse so my mother didn't find out. FYI, the paddling in the 8th grade was for smoking on school property. Kendra

    Jan 25
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      BadPam

      Yeah, smoking sure results in a lot of bruised behinds! But although my mom was strict, she was very fair. If I was paddled at school, then I had been duly punished for my offense and there was no need to give me more at home as a supplement! But I have to say, my friends all got spanked at home for getting in trouble at school, and they said I was lucky that way.

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      tripdelta3

      I got spanked a few times in elementary school, grades 1-4. They were just hand spankings over clothes - nothing much at all. No crying, just my embarrassment as the teacher would spank in front of the entire class.

      But then, in the afternoon when I got home from school, my mom would be waiting. Instead of the customary hug upon arrival at home, she would take me by the arm into the living room. The hairbrush would be waiting on the coffee table. In a New York minute, she had me pants down, face down over her lap for a thorough hiney warming with that awful hairbrush.

      Jan 26
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      rimjobgiver

      yep our VP mr meyers told students-you smoked on my campus.now im gonna make your butt smoke

      Feb 23
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      BadPam

      That's why I say that my principal was very nice about the whole paddling incident. As opposed to many principals and VP's, he did not make any cute comments as to how he was going to send me to the moon, or how I was going to feel this whenever I tried to sit down, etc. As youread, he actually tried to talk me out of the paddling! Not too many principals would do that! Still, he sure laid it on good and proper for someone who didn't want to spank me! I know he couldn't go easier on me because it would have been favoritism at best, or sexism at worst because he gave a girl special consideration.

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    deanjames

    That sounds like a very painful and humbling experience at age 17. If it was really the reason you never smoked again, then those red and purple circles were a very short term bit of damage compared to all the life-threatening damage possible from the cigarettes. You must have been sneaky to get hooked on smoking at age 14.

    Jan 24
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      BadPam

      Boy was it ever! I still can't believe how much that hurt. I figured if I was actually breaking school rules and getting punished because of a cigarette, then it was time to quit. I've been smoke-free for 27 years. It's funny, but as strict as my mom was--and as a nurse to boot--she didn't stop me from smoking, although she disapproved of it. I guess she figured someday I would find out the hard way. My own stupid fault.

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      BadPam

      That's 37 years--bad math or bad typing.

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    jvcs

    i got the cane 6 of the best i had to bend over and put my head onto a chair seat and not move problem was i had not done any thing to deserve it my mum gave him such a telling off

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    LizMom123

    I was paddled at school one time also. I got 3 swats on my gym shorts from Mrs. Wimby, the vice principal. Sitting was not easy, but your's sure sounds a whole lot worse.

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      BadPam

      In talking to others, I concluded that my paddling was very typical, except I volunteered to take it all at once, something that I probably would not do if I had to do it over. Normally a paddling would have been three or four swats, and because of fairness the girls were swatted as hard as the boys.

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      rimjobgiver

      yeh our vp gave 6 to 12 swats to boys n girls equally in our high school

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      BadPam

      That is one hell of a lot! The usual dose at our school, and the average for all paddling states, was three. Some girls I know got four and five. I know after what I got i sure didn't want to go back for seconds!

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      rimjobgiver

      in calif 12 swats was max

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    Bataviot

    Smoking can have painful consequences! You learnt a good lesson Bad Pam!

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