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I Was Raped

Please Read. I Need Advice.

By: faithhope22
Written on February 3rd, 2013
5 months ago I experienced the worst. Rape. I already posted mystory on here.

Anyways this guy that ive liked for 5 years found interest in me. We ended up dating and still are. But somehow his sister and mom found out what happen and told him. He then breaks up with me because of it. I liked him so much I took him back. Later his mom and sister tell him to be careful with me. They thought I just got really drunk and regretted it in the morning. They now dont think that bc i told them he admitted to the crime. His sister hates me for no reason and always tlks **** bout me. I really cant deal with it right now.

And his sister and mom thinking that makes me sick. I cant get over it. Its very disrespectful for them to think that. Im never gonna get over him breaking up with me bc of it and his family thinking that.

I think I moved into a relationship too fast even though ive liked him for years. We dont even mess around or even kiss. I show no affection. I think I need to focus on myself instead of worrying bout a bf and his family but I do love him. Just cant get over everything

Should I end it with him?
By: faithhope22
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • savenhero
    savenhero

    No way Trust is broken..then relationship also broken.. I am also in the same pain.. My Girlfriend left because she find another boyfriend...
    It's not so easy to break relationship when you are in love...It's better think more and more before you enter to tie up..

    Feb 4
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  • Bluephonebox
    Bluephonebox

    If you really want to try to salvage the relationship, then I suggest you sit down with your boyfriend and open up to him honestly about everything you are feeling. If he truly loves you, he will be understanding and compassionate, about something you are having a hard time with emotionally.

    If he doesn't and he blames you, like his dumb mother and stupid-psychotic sister. Leave and never look back, you dodged a bullet and you should be happy and ecstatic about it. Then you can work on you, either with his love and support; if he is understanding, or on your own with help from friends and family that you trust and love; if he is a flaming bag of douche. There are people here who understand and who are going through similar things. If you need someone to talk to let me know. You can friend me and I will be here to listen, without judgement of what you say.

    Feb 3
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    • faithhope22
      faithhope22

      Thank you so much for your response. It has helped me out a lot. I talked to him a little bit and he said he would never forgive me if I break up with him bc of this and that if I really loved him I wouldnt care what his family thinks. But im just tired of his sister and mom making my life ha r der than what it already is. He was being very rude about it. So I think im gonna have to call it quits bc he doesnt even understand. Thanks for the advice. You have no idea how much it means to me.

      Feb 4
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    • Bluephonebox
      Bluephonebox

      Before you call it quits. Ask your boyfriend to take you with him to see his mother and sister, with a friend of YOURS that gets YOU and is there for YOU, for safety and support. And explain to those women what you went through, with all honesty and emotion. If they don't realize what mean hurtful ******* they are being, then either your boyfriend will realize they are completely wrong and you need him more then he needs them. Or you can walk away with YOUR FRIEND, knowing they are morons for throwing away a chance to know someone. If you need anyone to talk to I'm here, I may not know what you're personally going through, but I know emotional pain and I am willing to listen, without judgement, to you and help give you support and unconditional love to help you get through this.

      Feb 4
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    • faithhope22
      faithhope22

      Thanks for the advice. You're the best.

      Feb 9
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    • Bluephonebox
      Bluephonebox

      No problem, I hope ever thing works out for the best, if you need, any more advice let me know.

      Feb 10
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