Can You Believe This?

I'm trying to get out to make new friends and meet new people.  Someone on this site suggested meetup.  I went on meetup and found a mom's group that I was interested.   I signed up and it said your membership has to be approved by the organizer of the group.   I answered her interview questions and I got an email saying the organizer declined my membership.  The reason was she wasn't accepting new members.  This is not true, because when they're not accepting members it says membership is closed before you apply.  I feel like such a loser!  Wtf!  I'm not good enough?  what on earth could i have said or done?
Tumblindice Tumblindice
36-40, F
8 Responses Aug 16, 2007

Hey, I agree with the previous post that said you should form your own group. Screw them!! You don't want to hang with those snotty moms anyway right? Good luck :-)

I guess it would be like if you friended someone here to be in your circle and they rejected you. You're left to wonder why?

thanks logistic, I may do that. I just have to pick myself up. I feel like I'm in a Seinfeld episode. These socially ridiculous things happen to me.

Why don't you start a group yourself? Find a nice park or place moms can meet and children can play and run an add to meet there. You can't be the only one that has been rejected by these others, so encourage others like yourself to come meet you.<br />
Skeeter

thanks guys and gals, I appreciate your comments. this site helps alot. I just can't understand the world sometime

So sorry to hear of your story. It is sad.<br />
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Groucho Marx once said, "I would never want to be a member of a club that would have me as a member." I would add to his comment; I would never want to be a member of a club that would reject me as a member."<br />
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Either way, I don't want to be a member of a club that screens membership, whether I am accepted or not.

So sorry to hear of your story. It is sad.<br />
<br />
Groucho Marx once said, "I would never want to be a member of a club that would have me as a member." I would add to his comment; I would never want to be a member of a club that would reject me as a member."<br />
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Either way, I don't want to be a member of a club that screens membership, whether I am accepted or not.

Thanks am xoxo, I just can't believe it! I love it here! The real world is so scary! I've never rejected anyone in my life! It isn't my imagination, the world is full of snobs!