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It Hurts, But I Deserve It

I am 17 nearly 18 and i get spanked still.

It hurt the hell sometimes if I get the belt or the cane on my bare, but afterwards I feel better because I have atoned for and all is forgiven.

Other young people get house arrest or are forbidden to watch TV.

Others are taking to drugs.

I would like to receive and clear limits to me it's better if I get a penalty for my sins, and then all is well again.

If I act like a ten year old I get spanked like a ten year old.

It is only bad if others noticed or even hear, that I get the cane and the belt on my bare butt.

But that´s another story.

carolinestevens carolinestevens 18-21, F 72 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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I am shocked! And upset! My comment was sincere and she is to old to be getting spanked by her parents ! My comment was aimed more twoards trying to weak her up! If it the spanking is by her parents. That is Abuse and it is not "ok"!

Who the **** spanks you? Im so confused!!!! THE HELL? Is it while you have sex? Or your parents do it that is brutal and it makes me sick

At times, a spanking is the only thing that sorts me out. All punishment works by giving pain. Punishment is a necessary and quite normal part of life. This pain can be caused by exclusion, privation or infliction (like prisoners who are deprived of their liberty). Although it is sometimes useful to be punished in other ways, physical, corporal punishment, where pain is applied directly to my body, (my exposed bum, on most occasions) is more logical somehow, and more effective. I would say I respect it more. Though I may try to bargain my way out sometimes, I never stop someone spanking me if they think I deserve it. The cane is good for the brain.

Caroline, I guess if you're 17 and still act like a 10 year old, then yeah, you should be punished. I disagree with caning kids though. Spanking is fine, but using an instrument to punish is unnecessary. If you are an adult and like to get spanked, well, that's quite different.

The punishment should it the crime. A bare bum strapping should be only for serious offenses. You are right though, punishment while painful at the time makes us feel better when it is over. We all need to pay for our misdeeds.

Well if you feel better afterwards I guess it is alright. But who would tell others that you have been spanked?

Dear caroline,
Your right if you did something whrong you deserve a good spanking.
And as you correctly say it hurts but getting spanked for your sins makes it better afterwords,because you now you deserved it.
Thats whats whrong dese days most off the teens get away with everything,thank god there are still parents who now how to discipline their children,big hug plasticgirl.

Good girl.

did you speak this situation to a psychologue

It is not that bad, and sometimes it might be necessary.<br />
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It has not harmed me to get a belting or a caning on my bare butt from time to time, but girls over 13 should be punished only in private.

it is not normal you live' çin democracy you must go to social service justice

It might be strange but I have atoned for, and I don´t feel guilty any more.

Hi Caroline, <br />
I agree with you. It is better to get a good spanking when you have done something wrong, it hurts and is humiliating and your bottom is sore for quite a few days. All this is better than endless arguments and recriminations. As you say if you behave like a ten year old you should be punished like one, accept it and improve in the future. The clear limits reinforced by a sore bottom when necessary works well! <br />
Gary.

you must speak this to a psy

So are you often spanked with two different implements and is that two different positions to or the same.I have some tips for you if you want to cool off your bum

A girl that I see regularly for discipline (I call them all "girls"; she's 43) feels much better after she "pays" for things she feels she has done wrong by taking a spanking. And of all the implements, she both wants and fears the belt the most of all. The belt I use is really a strap, but it's not like a thick razor strop--it's just a very old leather belt that the buckle has long since fallen off of. She prefers that after she is spanked with my hand, and whatever other implements I choose, that I finish with a strapping with that belt--even if she already got the belt earlier. She claims it brings out the sting of every other implement. Never having been spanked, I can't confirm this, but I have no reason top doubt her. <br />
And Caroline, I'm also curious about the belt in another way: this gilr says that the belt hurts like NO other. Even a paddling doesn't make her wiggle and whine and cry like a belt does. And right after the belt, she likes corner time but does NOT want me to stay in the room with her. She comes out a few minutes later and is quite affectionalte and ready to talk about the spanking or whatever I ask, but she seems to need those few minutes alone. Do you feel this way as well?

The belt really hurts a lot, but the flexible cane stings even worse. In addition a severe caning leaves heavy double welts on my bottom.

Afterwards I also need some time for me.

Mr PeterJameson you are thinking from the point of view of a “punisher” and I have commented from a personal experience and as a point of view of person who is getting the punishment.<br />
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If you started liking the punishment then it would do no good to your ractification. <br />
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Well punishments which consists mainly of fear , for instance, like she was canned so hard that she had to go to the hospital, then this kind a punishment comes under category of fierce punishment or fear and also abusive.thats why we don’t use this kind of punishment in regular domestic life.<br />
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Therefore, it consists mainly of humiliation kind a punishment, so the mistake is not repeated by the person getting punishment. <br />
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For more clear idea, A highly antisocial material or criminal fears of a death penalty or death sentence that’s why don’t wants to be caught by cops. <br />
And a celebrity feels humiliated when has to go behind the bars, as it destroys the image of celebrity.<br />
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"Regular people don’t eat medicine because it tastes good, and also regular people don’t take punishments because they enjoys it." <br />
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If you ask my personal opinion, why would I punish my kids?<br />
I am no NGO, no social or behaviour expert or person with debating qualities, I am just simple regular housewife and a mother to my kids, if any of my kid goes beyond the limit or makes mistake which according to me awards them with punishments. Then I would like to feel them little bit embarrassed by the punishment and little bit afraid of it so that they won’t make that mistake again.

Hello Caroline <br />
I can understand that, as I myself was used to be in same situation for lot many times. Punishments consists of mainly two thing, humiliation and fear. If punishments consists none of them, then it no use for applying that punishment. People mostly uses humiliating punishments in house cause they are less fierce than those punishments which consists of mainly fear.

Hi dayzee dayzee, <br />
I know I often deserve to be caned, but it´s so degrading to ***** naked and show my bare boobs and my pubic hair at my age.

totally convincing!!!!<br />
spanking and canes are deserved, whenever goes beyond limit.

Am I ever spanked for committing a sexual misbehavior?<br />
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Only for wearing of clothing being sexually provocative, like not wearing panties and wear instead skin-colored tights which is covered by a translucent white skirt. The boys had the impression that I was naked.They could even imagine my dark pubic hair, and they got a good impression of my naked bottom.<br />
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My dad said if I am not ashamed to show myself in public in such a way, I also deserve to get caned stark-naked.<br />
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I still have to remove all my clothes in front of him when he canes me in these cases.

I like your philosophy. Spanking helps get over rifts quicker.

Nothing wrong with getting aroused - it helps you to take the pain.

He is a very loving father.

Sometimes a good spanking is a good reminder to behave. Even at your age. I think the embarrassment would be motivation enough. Seems like it works for you. It would be for me!

mmm your a sexy girl but you must be naughty if daddy still spanks you. Please can you add me

same age,same belt,not canned yet,maybe if mom found it anywhere she wont doubt get to make my spanking worse,<br />
she used a slipper then a wooden spoon,she ask me while spanking to go bring another implement

I know the drill.

when i was grwong up it was hairbrush or strap for anything i did wrong<br />
my parents never belive in grounding they were catholic an spare the rod attitude

when i was grwong up it was hairbrush or strap for anything i did wrong<br />
my parents never belive in grounding they were catholic an spare the rod attitude

In South Africa the cane ruled!

Whenever I read or gear about someone being caned, I always assume "this person is in Great Britain". I know that may be a generalization, but in 53 years here in the USA, I have NEVER met a girl who was caned by parents, guardians, school authorities, or even a boyfriend, Now, I KNOW canes are here in the US, but far and away the post common implements where I live are paddles (and hairbrushes) and belts (or straps). Sometimes a "hickory switch" is used though most of the real hickory trees died long ago. Anyway, just my 2 cents.

As a child who was just whipped by a sadistic Mother I felt envious of the other girls who described their punishments, sometimes strap or cane on the bare bottom. That is the method I used with O/our children and I tried to be fair (what Mother is though) and the caneand/or strap wasn't a common thing but I made sure they felt them when they did happen. I know it hurt - it was supposed to, supposed to a lot. INow the time is ovwer I will tell you that all those welts and wailings that accumulated BUT never has any of O/our children been in any serious (ie pregnancy, drugs, police etc) trouble. The humiliation and pain was worth it. Personally I am glad it is past, it hurt me (inside) to have to do it.

Thanks for sharing you story Glen

Hi I'm Ashley,I wanted to add you as a friend but because I'm 16 it said you had to add me first,si I opw you will.I hope to hear from you soon Ashley

Its the other way round

Hi I'm Ashley,I wanted to add you as a friend but because I'm 16 it said you had to add me first,si I opw you will.I hope to hear from you soon Ashley

li like the way you think an act about your spankings<br />
yes that is the best way to rid your sins an have all forgotten <br />
here whne i sapnk my girls after it is over with all wrong doings forgotten an we go about our way if they so wish to go out after geting the belt they can do so no grounding but after there spankins they dont feel like doing aything but lay on tehre tummy in bed

Spankings given with love, works!

You're right. The sight of the cane makes me be obedient and behave because I know, that I have to drag my panties down and I have to bend over when I step out of line.

Mines storiy isd same as yours ;*

Hi caroling, I am A 19 year old girl. My father still gives me the belt on my bare bottom when needed. There nothing like the sight of the belt to makes A girl bahave. We are lucky to have fathers that care enought to take the belt to our of bottoms when we step out of line.

I think your dad is mean. Im a 6 year old boy i get the belt bare butt, neber a cane. I dont think girls shouldget bare butt whoopins.

what a load of fantasy

Thank you Sir.

Caroline - different cultures have differing methods and throughts on raising children and the roles of woman. Corporal Punishment was widely practiced in almost all cultures and civilisations right up to about 20 years ago. In a world of political correctness, the shift in common sense is just well - acking common sense.<br />
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Your father is a strict disciplinarian; he has been honest and open about this and his rules and consequences are well known and understood. You have come to realise that punishment and correction cleanses you and you are not in the minority here.<br />
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I am a firm disciplinarian and your father should be applaused for punishing you when you deserve it

whata load of rubbish this is just fantasy

HI i dont think u should get the cane as well as the hairbrush the hairbrush is bad enough you dont need the cane as well . i sometimes get the cane if i kick, wriggle and squirm when being hairbrushed spanked! just been spanked very recently bottom hurts at present

Caroline cherish your memories and take them with you into adulthood...it will allow you to enjoy a great relationship with the fine young man who eventually becomes your husband....

I don't think so, because he never touches my crotch.

maybe he did noticed ? One doesn't need to touch you , the pitch of your voice could tell?

wonder idfyour father noticed your wetness during spanking?

Hello Caroline,<br />
Congrats. with the comment on another post in connection with the stupid comparison in connection with crime in Sweden and the US!<br />
As you said, spankings give closure and it keep you out of jail.

Hi. Where are you from? Maybe you need a nice bare bottom spanking.

I still get belted by mom and dad.<br />
I earn my spankings and I get them. It hurts, but I make any clamor about it.

mmmm love to rub your welts for you, and check out that wet crotch.

I get caned on my bare, but I'm not for everybody have it!.

A Priest Gave My Mum A Rattan Cane When i was Age 8 . i often had A Welted Bruised Bottom if i was a NaughtyBoy and Deserved to be Punished . My Mum ALways Caned My bare bottom Hard davidmaher48@gmail.com

That has been much too early

Thank you for your compassion and for your advice.<br />
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My mom beats me until I was 12, but not with the cane. She puts me over her knee and used her hairbrush on my bare bottom.

But if you were agood girl you would not have to be spnked in the first place

How I you feel when I have to bend over? <br />
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If I get ordered to bend over, I surrender myself to my destiny, but I feel very excited.<br />
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My skirt gets folded up and my panties get pulled down. I often wear tights, which then also to be pulled down to my thighs. This is particularly embarrassing to me because my butt gets exhibited in a special way.<br />
In this position I feel observed and humiliated and I try to squeeze my buttocks, so not everything can be seen. But I am also aroused so that I will get wet, what is even more embarrassing to me.<br />
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How I you feel just before the first whack?<br />
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I'm just scared!<br />
If I was not spanked before, the first blows with the cane are incredibly painful.<br />
It's already happened, that I've peed from sheer fear.

do you normally pee before or during?

It is too painful to talk about it because then all the memories come up again.<br />
I can also arrange my feelings when I talk about it.<br />
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On the one hand, I know that it is okay to still be brought up strictly and beaten with a cane, on the other hand, I am ashamed to howl and snivel even at my age, and dissolved in tears to beg for forgiveness and for mercy like a small brat when I get a caning on my bare buttocks.

In the result, it helps to talk about it.

Talking can be helpful and also be painful.<br />
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"What was the hardest caning you ever got? "<br />
I´ll tell you another time.

"How often do you get the cane?"<br />
2 to 4 times a month not, but always server. Many times it's just six strokes over my briefs.<br />
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"How old were you first time you were caned?"<br />
I was 11 when I got caned the first time, but I got it on my bare since I only on 13<br />
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"How long do the cane marks last?"<br />
If it'sa light caning marks the last only a few hours.<br />
In case of a heavy caning on my bare bottom stripes for the last three to four quiet days till they are gone and you can see the bruise for more that one to two weeks.<br />
The stripes on the back of my thighs last longer than on my bottom till they are gone, but I seldom get them.

I realize that I feel very embarrassed to talk about it.

"Do you cry or struggle during your caning?"<br />
Can you imagine how much it hurts? <br />
I moan and whimper cry when I get caned. <br />
I'm not allowed to struggle. If I do it, I get extra punishment. He has already threatened summon someone who holds me tight. That never happened.<br />
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"Do you keep your legs together?"<br />
I keep my legs together to cover my crotch, if he stands behind me and he is lecturing me after I was made to bend over.<br />
During the caning I forget about it.<br />
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"Are you brave?"<br />
I try to be. But sometimes I even peed in my briefs when I went to his study for a caning.<br />
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"Do you take it well?"<br />
Mostly not, but I try my best.

I never had unusual thoughts about my father after a while or punishment.<br />
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After my father has caned me again I feel cleansed.<br />
I need his strong hand from time to time.<br />
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He has never stepped too close to me and I have never felt sexually abused.<br />
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It is correct when a girl pulled down the panties and beatings with a cane, if she has has failed, even if it is already 17th<br />
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He has never stepped too close to me and I have never felt sexually abused.<br />
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It is correct when a father pulls down the panties of a girl and her up beatings with a cane on her bare bottom, if she does not behave in a propper way, even if it is already 17th<br />
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It's just the situation itself and the feeling afterwards that makes me excited.<br />
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When I rub my bed I get welts later in sexual aroused but I am not thinking of my father while I'm doing it.

That's true somehow.<br />
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If I dress myself like a b!tch, I do because I want to get the attention of the boys. I love to tease.<br />
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The risk of get caned because of my bad behavior increases the charm.

well if you read my stories you will see that I am straight forward if you dress to be a tease you should be carefull because someone may think that you are being a tease and attach you and we do not want that to happen. And the other thing is what if you want to meet a nice guy you would not know whether they want to know you and not just to get in to your pants ( sorry to be straight forward) and do you want that kind of repation.

Well if you do not think it is abuse when I would say you try to do better and stay away from the spankings did you know you are in control of the spankings yes you are if you do not want to be spanked them be a good girl and if you want to be spanked then kwwp on being bad.

I know what you mean. <br />
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I fear the penalties and if I get caned it really hurts. But I know I have deserved it and I feel relieved and then excited and aroused afterwards. When I am in bed later then I am rubbing my welts I´m getting wet in my crotch.<br />
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I am a little confused about my feelings.

If you are getting a sexual arousal like that you should let your parents know. If they knew that the probably would pick different pumishment.

I do not understand what you mean by that?

Its not uncommon to wet yourself when you are being belted or caned. I usually weed in my knickers when dad belted me and I would be sent to bed in my wet knickers as an additional punishment.

that's also happened to me.

does it happen often?

help me someone!! I'm 11 and last night my daddy took my phone for yelling at my sister, after he took my pho I yelled at him and smacked him. he usually wets my butt and spanks me bare butt, but this time he did it with my cloths on and only 3 hits. He stopped himself and said "no. I know that you know you have done wrong, so I'm going to give you 3 days to think a good punishment" so can yall help me? What would you do to your child? Oh a I cursed at him.

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I wish it would have been the same with me.

yeah, I can relate snippy. No one has ever beeen more deserving

He canes me without witnesses and I get always caned or belted on my panties or on my bared bottom, but I never have get nacked.<br />
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I´ll never remove all clothes and my father would never ask for.<br />
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He is not abusing me. I not like but I accept it.

do you ever get caned over tights? do they help or not?

Are you caned in front of others?<br />
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Do you have to remove your clothes before getting caned?

Hi smackedboarder,<br />
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you are right, getting the belt or the cane on my bare bottom is no fun at all!<br />
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My father expects me to keep the position while I bend over his desk. <br />
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But mostly I whimper and weep while he gives me a caning on my bare butt.<br />
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Sometimes my bottom is covered with weals and bruised and I have still tears in my eyes when I have my corner time afterwards<br />
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But I´m happy it´s over and my sins are forgiven. No one is longer angry with me.<br />
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I know it´s for my own sake and I think it will happen the same to me as to you and your daughters.<br />
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I will learn this severity until I move out.

i had only gave out corner time when the offence was server enought to need it

It´s a good adjustment!

Thank you.

yes very good adjustment for her