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I Was the Other Woman

I Was The Other Woman

By: pixie2309
Written on December 9th, 2011
This is my story...please don't judge me....3 years ago I started an affair with a married man...it was wrong,I felt bad but it happened...he comes from a sexless marriage and I thought he loved me and wanted to break free from his sad and boring substitute of a marriage.After some time (2 years) I got pregnant and finally gave birth to his baby daughter.He changed his mind about me and his baby several times but finally decided to leave me over the phone.He left me pregnant,ill and alone and ran back to her...of course he kept it a secret from her but she finally found out and now I'm the ***** that stole her husband.Bottom line-they walk through town,hand in hand,smiling...I raise his child on my own,no support,not even once having asked to see her... Is this great love possible?He lived in a sexless marriage for 25 years,incited this affair with me,when I was most vulnerable and then dumped me...Why would he even consider being with me, if they are so in love?And why am I here,the mother of his child,if they are such a great item?Please,try and explain
By: pixie2309
Age: 41-45 , Female
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    tropicalislandgirl
    tropicalislandgirl

    Sorry to hear your troubles. People say all kinds of things when they are in lust. Some things may be true, some distorted, some outright lies. Bottom line is, it's not worth it at all to get involved with a married person. If they can't be trusted when it comes to the marriage vows, what makes you think that you will fare any better? Not only that, why put yourself through the guilt. Start clean, start fresh, start right, but think about getting child support if you need it, unless you totally want to be rid of this contact.

    Nov 21, 2012
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    mjs60r
    mjs60r

    That, is so bad I have been in a bad marrige for years now and have not cheated on my wife. I am sorry you went through this. I hope you cherish your child and you will find someone who will be special to you both soon. I feel it and I know it will happen.

    Jan 15, 2012
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    jayjayfay
    jayjayfay

    I'm sorry that all of this happened to you. I had an affair with a married man too and we just ended it. He is having a child with his wife and it was killing me. I understand the inability to get out, the fear and the loneliness.



    I agree, please do what's right for the baby and have him pay to assist in the finances. Do it for your baby. You deserve a life with someone that will be there 100%. I do too. We all do.

    Dec 13, 2011
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      pixie2309
      pixie2309

      Yes...we do...I know that now.....and it's not so much what he did but how he did it...not recognizing what a selfish,ignorant bastard he is,was my fault...not his...se can have him...they totally deserve each other

      Dec 13, 2011
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    pixie2309
    pixie2309

    his life has not changed a bit....it*s her,him....a friend told me he*s off the the office Christmas party tonight...no regrets,no remorse for him....a real piece of work,indeed:(

    Dec 10, 2011
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    TatterdHeart
    TatterdHeart

    Get a paternity test and sue for child support. Sorry you had to go through this. Maybe you should consider moving to a new town and starting fresh. Just so you wouldn't have to see them. Sounds like he's a real piece of work. Be glad you didn't end up with him. (((hugs)))

    Dec 10, 2011
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