Many, Many Times Growing UpI was told I can't for many things, on many occasions growing up.
I couldn't drive a car because I was a girl
I couldn't have a career because I was a girl
I couldn't run because I was a girl
yadda, yadda, yadda
It depended on whom said it whether it broke me or not. In a lot of cases I proved that I "could" by going out and doing what I was told I couldn't do.