Before i got married i was a little to into photos of girls, and my wife knew that wen we got married. She brought me a stainless steel belt and forced me to wear it 24/7/365 except when we were having relations. To be fair I also locked her in one. It so much better now because I cant get out and when I do its in front of my lovely wife and I take all of the enery to her. After "click" it goes right back on. She loves hers they are very cofortable and prevent sex and pleasing myself!!