I had a cyber friend for years, we were very close, then he just left. Makes me sad and I don't know why he abandoned me.
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3 Responses Feb 11, 2016

Well that sucks. No warning or nothing?

Very sorry this happened to you. If he didn't want to communicate with you anymore, he should have given you an explanation. It was really heartless of him to abandon you without a word.

This may sound a bit odd, but are you sure he's alive? The reason I ask this is that I had a friend that did the same thing. We spoke every day for the longest time, but she kept her illness a secret from almost everyone. One day she was just gone, I found out a few months later that she passed away from complications due to breast cancer. That was a hard one... I wish she would have confided in me, but people do things for their own reasons.

Were you just friends, or was it a little deeper than that?

Thank you, I'm sure that's what it was. She was a very beautiful woman and probably wanted people to remember her that way.

Did his wife know about your friendship? If not she may have found out and felt threatened. She may have put pressure on him to break it off. Even if that's the case though, you deserve an explanation and closure.