I Wife Swapping
My wife and I are about to make this fantasy become a reality but I have a question. Is it better for me to be there the first time or for them to be alone?
We met the guy about two years ago and my wife is comfortable with him. They've gone out on about ten lunch dates before and chat regularly but I've only met him once, the first time that we all met for dinner.
The reason that I want to be there to watch is because I want to see and hear the first time she takes him in her. But I also feel that if I'm there it could be awkward and I could ruin their chemistry. I don't want them to concentrate too much on me and feel like they have to put on a show for me.
Did any of you feel this way? What did you do?
We met the guy about two years ago and my wife is comfortable with him. They've gone out on about ten lunch dates before and chat regularly but I've only met him once, the first time that we all met for dinner.
The reason that I want to be there to watch is because I want to see and hear the first time she takes him in her. But I also feel that if I'm there it could be awkward and I could ruin their chemistry. I don't want them to concentrate too much on me and feel like they have to put on a show for me.
Did any of you feel this way? What did you do?