I just read one of those self help books that i borrowed from the library, called "Cherry Bomb"....and i just want to share this bit of advice that i read..in a nutshell and how i interpreted it. Most of the time, people who want you to change or insult you for being yourself...well, they are jealous and envious of something you have...and so many books out there advise you to try to understand them, to feel pity, to forgive...Well....DON'T!!!!!! Why should you? They don't give you the same opportunity, so *EXPLETIVE* THEM! Go on with your own life...they are pitiful and pathetic, but that's not YOUR problem.....and why should you waste your time trying to figure them out?