I have never been controlled into being someone I'm not. People have tried, mainly teachers and peers who thought they could change me. I even had one man that I dated try and turn me into someone I possible could never be.
So they stopped trying. Or I removed myself from certain circles.
I am not offensive in any way (honestly!)
I just try to be me as much as I can, even though it is hard some days, just let me get on with itcssdropdown.startchrome("chromemenu");