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Bedwetting For Beginners

Do you yearn to wake up to that once familiar feeling of another wet bed. Or perhaps you weren't a bedwetter but are curious to find out just what it feels like. Do you want your nights to be spent in wet sheets or soaking nappies? Are you already wetting on purpose and want to take it one step further.

I can help you acheive your goal but it takes comitment and becoming a true bedwetter should be considered a permanent step. Once you acheive this it is highly likely you will always wet the bed to some extent and complete night time control might be lost for ever.

Step 1/ So you really do want to be a bedwetter and spend your nights sleeping in urine soaked sheets or nappies. Right there is no going back now so lets get started. Tonight you are going to soak your bed and sleep in it. Your matteras will suffer as you are not going to make any special preperations and although your wetting will be deliberate you will think of it as the first of many accidents as you become a regular bedwetter. Before you go to bed tonight drink plenty and  do not use the bathroom. Go to bed in your underwear. I don't know why but you will find wetting your bed much more pleasurable than wetting naked. Wet your pants a little or even a lot if you like before getting in to bed. This way your sheets will become damp straight away. You have wet your bed now so must lay in it and might as well pee in bed rather than be tempted to get up. Either lay there till you can't hold on any longer and empty your bladder soaking the bed before you go to sleep or if you drift off when your full bladder wakes you just let go and enjoy the feeling making sure you completely empty your bladder. Now you must spend the rest of the night in your wetness adding to it if the need to pee arises.

It might be hard to sleep in your wet bed at first but you must overcome this so now is as good a time as any. When yo wake in the morning make sure the first thing you do is empty your bladder and enjoy laying in your wetness for a while before getting up. You will have a soaking bed to deal with and no doubt your room will start to smell of stale pee but you are a bedwetter so this is to be expected. I suggest you just leave the bed turned down and sleep in the same unchanged bed the following night, wetting it again of course.Sleeping in the same wet bed takes real comitment and might seem uncomfortable at first but if you can do this it really will help you along the way to reverse all the pre concieved thoughts that wetting the bed is wrong.  By now your bed will have some nice big pee stains on to remind you that you are a bedwetter and the matteras will always smell of urine to remind you. After a few nights of wetting your unprotected bed I suggest that you dry your matteras out best you can and buy a protective cover as you obviously need one. You are now well and truly a bedwetter and don't forget it. As I said at the beginning you need real comitment to acheive your goal so you must make sure that at some point each night you wet your bed and remain in it till morning. Gradually this will become the natural thing to do. You are aiming to get to the point where even though it is still deliberate you wet your bed every night without really thinking about it and sleeping in it once wet just feels perfectly normal. There are times when this may be awkward when you are away from home or have people staying over but remember a true bedwetter can't choose when and where to wet the bed.

Step 2/ By now you should be wetting your bed every night and sleeping in it till morning without any problem. You probably are looking forward to each night and really enjoying all the sensations of being a bedwetter. Now is the time to decide how you are going to manage your bedwetting as it is something you are going to have to deal with for the rest of your life. Bedwetting will involve a lot of extra laundry so if you think nappies are the best course of action now is the time to introduce them. If you do choose to wear nappies tell yourself you need them because you wet the bed and take time to choose the right ones for you. Cloth or terry nappies with plastic pants work best but are more effort I personally prefer them to disposable ones. There are many types of bed pads protective covers and incontinence wear to choose from. Enjoy choosing the right way to manage your bedwetting remembering all the time you are doing this because you are a bedwetter and always will be. Whether you wear nappies or just wet your bed you should now be getting used to wetting as soon as you start to wake whenever that may be. Make sure every time you start to wake you empty your bladder imediately. You must do this every time to ensure your control starts to deminish. Sooner or later you will start peeing before you wake. Once this happens you are almost there. Keep on wetting on purpose as often as possible until your sleep wetting becomes a regular occurance. Always remember that you are a bedwetter and treat all wetting whether on purpose or in your sleep as something you can't help doing. Eventually wetting your bed will just become second nature and sleeping wet will feel more natural than being dry at night.

Step 3/ Well this is up to you. Once you have started wetting in your sleep if you make no effort to stop and until sleep wetting becomes a regular occurance you also wet on purpose chances are you will eventually loose all your night time contol. If you are happy being this way enjoy it and accept you are now a bedwetter. Dry nights will soon be a distant memory.

Please post in the comments section or the topic forum to let us know how you are getting on and feel free to add any tipsof your own which might help anyone along the way to acheiving this goal. Becoming a bedwetter or regressing back to bedwetting isn't for everyone but it is a harmless habit and for some gives a lot of pleasure I regressed using this method and my nights are spent in soaking nappies and or wet sheets. I seldom wake dry in the morning now and couldn't be happier.

Hewholovestobewet Hewholovestobewet 46-50, M 34 Responses Jan 30, 2009

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I wet my bed as often as I can, but I want to wet my bed every night...

do you have to wet your actual bed or can you just wet diapers???

My advice would be to wet your bed at first and then start using nappies because you obviously need them.

Just follow the above and you too can be a bedwetter.

Hey i am a 13 year old girl and i want to become a bedwetter but its hard for me to wet my bed does anyboddy have Any tips???

All of you that reach teh goal are very happy. I also like to be incontinent and thats why I started the following group:

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I please you to support me reaching my goal!

Hey, I loved reading this comments. Please, don't stop posting here. Tonight I will pee my bed deliberately because of reading about all these people wanting to achieve this goal. I hope I can become a bedwetter too.

Everyone is diferent but if you keep at it I promise you will get there. Wetting each and every night and again as soon as you wake is the key.

I have been trying to achieve nightime incontentent for almost 4 months and nothing has happened. I wear diapers to bed pee a little and then go to sleep and when I wake up I found out that I didn't go when I was sleeping, but as soon as I get up out of bed my pee just goes stright out of me. Also with me wetting myself I cause myself to have a UTI and now have to take antibotics for the infection. But it won't help because I will keep on trying until I AM NIGHTIME INCONTENENT!!!!

Everyone is different. My regression took about 3 months and by 6 months I hardly ever had a dry night. Now well over two years since i took the decision to regress I just have the ocasional dry night. If I wet on purpose the following night before going to sleep then I am back to sleep wetting again. The longest I have been dry since my regression is about 3 nights. However long it takes to become a bedwetter, keep at it and enjoy the journey. Becoming a bedwetter takes comitment but can be acheieved.

i am 15 and i am going to be a bed wetter so i can get back in diapers

i am 15 and i am going to be a bed wetter so i can get back in diapers

i just made this a goal ive always wanted to be a bed wetter i am 13 i can not sleep this is my first night . ive never bed wet before can i start wearing diapers now should i use depends. my parents have no idea i want to be a bed wetter do you have any tips

You will either love it or hate it. I see from your profile you already enjoy wetting your pants so I suspect you will enjoy bedwetting. I have been a life long bedwetter although I have had dry periods that is in the past I wet most nights again now and couldn't be happier.

If you want to wet your bed then drink any of your favorite fluids but not too much as you will be so desperate you won't be able to relax. When I was regressing I just drank normally during the evening and skipped the bathroom. I found I usually drifted off to sleep and woke in the night when I just let go and drifted back to sleep. If I needed to pee before I fell asleep then thats just what I did falling asleep comforted by my warm wetness. If I slept right through I always made sure I wet as soon as I woke. You need to get to the stage where although still deliberate you are totally relaxed about wetting your bed and comfortable sleeping in your wetnes once you have let go. The nest stage is looking forward to being wet every night. The rest will follow if you keep at it.

I have a importent ? for you! What do you recomend I drink befor bed? PLEAS TELL ME!

If you have the nerve to tell your family and friends that you have started wetting the bed this could help you along the way to your goal. You must believe that you are a bedwetter. I couldn't do this my self but fortunately I didn't have any problems regressing.

If you have the nerve to tell your family and friends that you have started wetting the bed this could help you along the way to your goal. You must believe that you are a bedwetter. I couldn't do this my self but fortunately I didn't have any problems regressing.

Of course if you are unlearning all that you know about not wetting the bed then you do need to wet your bed unprotected a few times and if possible sleep in several nights in a row to get used to sleeping wet. Then dry it out and get a cover because if you are becoming a true bedwetter you need to wet every night and your matteras will become completely soaked in pee if you continue to wet unprotected every night.

I used to do that when I was a teenager. Eventually the matteras gets soaked right through. Mine was and always smelt of pee and had some massive stains on it. If you don't mind ruining your matteras and your room smelling of pee then go ahead. Peeing an unprotected bed is a great feeling but not very practical.

umm is it okay to turn the "good" side upside down on our mattress nd pee on the other side?



Thanks

I have dificulty sleeping unless I am wet and have lost my night time control.

I AM A BEDWETTER I couldn't be prouder, I have wet the bed for over 40 years. I usually wear rubberpanties to bed, and sometimes disposable diapers underneath them. I have trouble sleeping untill I wet the bed. I also wet my pants regularly. I find that I am slowly loosing complete control of my bladder, and I am happy that I will soon loose complete control. I AM A BED WETTER, AND PROUD OF IT!!!!!!!!

Oh I can't wait for the first time my alarm wakes me and I discover that my diaper is soaked! God I can't wait for that morning! I want to become a bedwetter so bad. So far, I have only had one "kind of" accident. I was dreaming I was peeing and woke up but not before I spilled a few onces in my PJ's. I really want my friends and family to find out too. My sister-in-law saw my stack of diapers in our closet a few months ago but my wife passed it off as our son's. I hope she thought about it and realized that they are really mine.

Oh I can't wait for the first time my alarm wakes me and I discover that my diaper is soaked! God I can't wait for that morning! I want to become a bedwetter so bad. So far, I have only had one "kind of" accident. I was dreaming I was peeing and woke up but not before I spilled a few onces in my PJ's. I really want my friends and family to find out too. My sister-in-law saw my stack of diapers in our closet a few months ago but my wife passed it off as our son's. I hope she thought about it and realized that they are really mine.

You will easily reach your goal as you have the right approach to bedwetting. I was an every night wetter until I was eleven or so. I missed the wet feeling so I started again in my teens although it was on purpose with just the ocaisional true sleep wetting. I stopped for a while at the end of my teens but by my early twenties I was wetting on purpose again and soon it became a regular thing. I have regressed back to true bedwetting and seldom wake up dry now. It just takes a bit of comitment to get there. Once you are comfortable with wetting every night and sleeping wet the rest will follow.

I did wet the bed untell I was 11 mom and dad were ok with it I wear me diaper every night I have sence I started to wear and wet I started a few weeks befor i was 20 I will be 23 in march I do like it and it is great way to weak up and just to be able yo wet my diaper even if the bed gets wet I dont care I AM A BEDWETTER

It takes time but if you follow my guide lines I'm sure you will get there. Make sure you wet your nappy each time you wake as well as before you go to sleep. Some people take longer than others. Were you a bedwetter as a child?

I have been trying to become a bedwetter now for over 2 years I wear diapers to bed I wet befor going to sleep my parents know and think i am a bedwetter all my friends know i wet and my boy friend dose too he is why I want to be a bedwetter he is one

You are very lucky to have met someone who is like you.