Wanted to Be a Bedwetter Who Needs Diapers Forever...

  Ever since i was around 5 i have been aware of my desire to be a bedwetter.More specificly a bedwetter who is "required " to wear diapers.I seriously have no idea why this is,but it has been a part of me for pretty much as long as i can remember.

  I did have a cousin who was a very regular and heavy bedwetter and occasional pants wetter.Since this was the 70s there were no goodnites or pull ups invented.So if a parent chose to use protection on a child it was often Pampers. or some other disp diaper...some even used pin on diapers and plastic pants.

  I was very jealous of the fact that she "got" to wear diapers.I place the word "got" in quotes because it was obviously something she didnt like and found uncomfy and emmbarrising.

   It was a very different time...and being firm and punishy twoards a bedwetter wasnt considered a bad thing by many people.Spankings corner time...mild humiliation etc were used without so much as a blink from most people.

  I have been told that obviously i desired attention...but for the life of me i cant really figure out why i would want such negative attention.Since as i have said they spanked scolded put her in the corner etc...

   Recently i downloaded a bedwetting hypnosis file from a website and have used it 2 times so far without success....i have never really confessed this desire to anyone...any replies are appreciated.

 

 

moliguy moliguy
36-40, M
14 Responses Mar 27, 2009

can i listen to your hypnos file

I need to become a sleepwetter. I am waking up once or twice every night needing to go to the toilet, and having difficulties going back to sleep. I am losing at least two hours of sleep each night. If I could just go in a diaper without waking up that would be fantastic.

I need to become a sleepwetter. I am waking up once or twice every night needing to go to the toilet, and having difficulties going back to sleep. I am losing at least two hours of sleep each night. If I could just go in a diaper without waking up that would be fantastic.

I wouldn't trade my bedwetting for anything and although I wouldn't deliberately encourage anyone to be this way if it is what you really want and are ready to accept the consiquences then go for it. Bedwetting hurts no one and it is you that will be sleeping in urine soaked shets and or nappies so. What I will say is don't knock it till you've tried it I have been enjoying my bedwetting since my late childhood/early teens.

As a bed wetter, how often are you finding yourself needing to wash bed sheets/mattress etc?.I'm currently wetting in bed with nappy's on but one leaked everywhere the other night and I slept in it.The clean up took along time though.

Hi The first thing you will want to do is to really think if this is what you really want. I mean really think about this. You are trying to un-train yourself of some thing in which you may never be able to reverse. As well as day time accidents they will happen and there may not be anything that you can do after you loose control. Many online websites are either to complicated to understand or to incomplete to follow. I have wanted to become a bedwetter ever since I was six years old. and am now 25. I have tried to follow someone else's ideas and stories on how to. But It did not work for me. You have to invent your own idea's and follow them. I did and am now completely free from the toilet. I never wanted day time accidents it was something that just happened. I will give you some ideas on how to make yourself become a bedwetter but you will have to make them into your own ideas for them to work. Only you know what will work for you.<br />
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You have to understand that you will most likely loose day time control as well so please consider this before you start. It is not really a choice in the matter. It is something that is going to happen. The first thing is that in order to become a bedwetter is to put your diaper on just before bed with out going potty. Then you will want to do your night time routine. and then drink about 16oz of water before you lay down. when you lay down and fall asleep your body releases hormones to slow the bladder from filling as fast as it does during the day which your bladder becomes less painful when filling.<br />
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If you wake up in the middle of the night and have the urge to go you will want to stay where you are and force your self to go potty right there where ever you are sleeping. You will probley soak the bed the first couple months so it is suggested that you get an air mattress. cheep and disposable. plus it is plastic and is made out of the same kind of material used to make beach balls just thicker so as to hold the weight of people. So as to save you hunderds of dollers on mattress's.<br />
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When you wet your bed you will want to stay where your are; In the wet bed and try to fall back asleep. It may sound disgusting but this is what a real bed wetter’s go thru. Trust me I am a uncontrollable bed wetter and sometimes the diapers can't hold as much as I wet. I wake up with wet sheets and P.J.'s about once a week sometimes twice.<br />
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As a bedwetter you need to understand that this is something that will happen at all times anywhere and at any time well you are sleeping. You need to be (100 percent) ok with it happening. Weather you are at your friends house or your families house or at home in your own bed. You must force yourself to wet were ever you sleep “No exceptions are to be made“.<br />
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You will not have a choice when you really wet the bed without control. Now will you? Bedwetting is full time, not something a person can turn on or off at there leisure like a light switch. You will not be able to control your bladder at night once you have lost the control “EVER AGAIN“. <br />
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I suggest that you really think about the real aspects of bedwetting and what may become of your well being. If you are ok with sleeping over someone's house. You will have to be ok with telling them about your bedwetting. They need to know. If you can't then you are going to find your self in a tight spot. What will they say if you were to wake up on there couch and find that you soaked there couch with urine. You will problem have to buy them a new couch and they will find out about your bedwetting anyways. They will most likely loose trust in you and tell you to where a diaper to bed if you continue to stay there.<br />
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The only thing that you need to remember is that you are a bedwetter and bedwetter’s don’t have a choice to fit there fancy when or where it happens, It will happen un-willingly and some times more then you would like it to. <br />
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Although you may have control now, you will have no way of stop it once you have trained your self to go potty whenever your body has the urge to go well you sleep. This is most likely the part where you will start seeing your day time control diminishing right before your eye‘s weather you wish it or not "It will happen."<br />
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Like I said I am a bedwetter and have been for about 3 years and I am not afraid to tell my friends or anyone who asks, because It is the truth plus they will find out in the long run anyways. I enjoy bedwetting and have come to like the day time wettingas well. Yet for you it will take time to achieve complete bedwetting “Your time is what you make of it.” <br />
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Hypnosess Is something that I recomend and helped me alot. It helps pass the time when you are not doing anything else. They may or may not work but as long as you have the basic concepts on the art of bedwetting. The hypnosses files are a cool and a fun way to make it a reality from the begining. Good luck and hope to here from you in the future to see how you make out in your life.<br />
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"Bedwetting is the greatist thing that could ever have happened for me and would never trade it for the World." I hope it is the same for you as well.

Can you send me some of the hypnosis files, my email is: jsdiaperlover@gmail.com

I don't see the need for tapes either. Going to bed with a full bladder is the best way and forcing yourself to lay there until you can't hold on any longer and the inevitable happens. Then tell yourself you have wet your bed so you will have to lay in it. No getting out you must sleep in your wetness. <br />
This is the biggest hurdle for some. You must get to the point where although still deliberate everynight at some point either before going to sleep or during the night if you wake neding to pee you wet your bed and sleep in it If you sleep through till morning you still should wet your bed as soon as you wake and enjoy a wet lay in.

Becoming a bedwetter is easy, no hypnosis tapes needed. First,drink plenty of liquids that make you want to pee. I like sweet tea, and sweet koolaid. Also for some people, beer works well, also for some wine works well. Just try different things, and drink lots of fluids right untill you go to bed. Also, a large glass of warm whole milk seems to work wonders. Another helpful item may be a bowl of hot water on the nightstand to slowly dip your fingers in. Good luck. I AM A BEDWETTER AND PROUD OF IT!

I certainly share your desires to become a bedwetter. The few times that I did it on purpose was wonderful. The sheets and covers were soaked with warm pee. My goal is to loose all control over my bladder. I too have some of the hypnosis MP3's and hope that it will help in my gola.

I certainly share your desires to become a bedwetter. The few times that I did it on purpose was wonderful. The sheets and covers were soaked with warm pee. My goal is to loose all control over my bladder. I too have some of the hypnosis MP3's and hope that it will help in my gola.

That's so cool Moliguy! I hope hypnosis works for you. I've been thinkin about trying to find a local hypnotist to help me but it's kinda hard to walk in to a professional trying to help people stop smoking, lose weight or solve childhood problems and ask them to help you start wetting the bed again. Besides, I am a profession in a town of 100k and I don't think it would be good if someone found out. Maybe someday I'll get the courage ...maybe someday it will happen without that kind of help. Thanks for sharing your progress

An update on my working with the hypnotic MP3 file...i have listened for the past 3 days.Until today i just found it to be fun from the "Novelty" sense.I had felt very relaxed but never really felt i went into a "Trance".Today was different because about three fourths of the way through the tape i just sort of "Blanked out" i didnt fall asleep...i just sort of blanked out...and snapped back into conciousnes fully aware very different from my usual waking up from a nap.No grogginess etc...i am not saying that they work per se mind you...just that they seem to have some sort of "effect" .Very interesting because i would describe myself as pretty skeptical of the whole idea.

If you really want to be a true bedwetter the best way is to start wetting on purpose as often as you can and keep at it. If you can get to the stage where it is natural to pee in bed and you are comfortable sleeping wet the rest will follow. The main thing is to be relaxed about the whole thing. I am rarely dry at night now and happy being this way. The main thing is to accept this is a permanent step. If you really want it you will get there.

Thank you so much for your kind words...sadly i find wetting my bed on purpose very hard.I am hoping tonight perhaps the warp your mind curse i have listened to a few times will finally begin to take hold.Hypnosis is an awfully odd feeling to be sure...just not sure if its going to be helpful.

Hey there,<br />
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It sounds like this is a good place for you. Your story resonates with me in almost every point. I've "fought" diaper desires my whole life and not long ago I came to the conclusion that the only way I'm going to find peace is to make myself legitimately dependent on them. I'm trying my darnedest to lose my night time control. I bought the hypnotic MP3's from SoCalAB and warp my mind too. You can read about my progress by going to the story I wrote and scrolling down through the comments. I invite you to join me in my quest to become a helpless bedwetter. Keep coming here and make Hewholovestobewet one of your friends - he has done what we aspire to do so he's good help. I'll give you my personal e-mail if you ask for it on my whiteboard. I hope to hear a lot from you, welcome aboard!