Who Will.I don't think that any one ever really get's over their past. We are products of our pasts.
Whatever traumas we may have experienced in the past how we have dealt with that trauma has shaped who we are.
For those of us who nurture or genetics has blessed with great inner strength what didn't kill us has made us stronger wiser people.
Sadly for those who lack inner strength, and that is no one's fault it's just bad luck, they may be permanently damaged, bitter, scared or unable to forgive or trust.
Whatever your story you are I believe a product of your past.
For better or for worse.