I've had enough of them thrust upon me in my family and work situations. So I will not let such people through the gates of my personal life. That would be my own fault, wouldn't it. I believe in vampires because there are just some people who suck your soul out slowly. I've seen too many people in my life enter into theses sick codependent relationships. They leave only to go right back. Then they ask what's wrong with the other person instead of looking at themselves. Gandhi said: I refuse to let someone walk through my mind with dirty boots. I live that motto.