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But I'M Scared

I want to cut my long locks short, but fear gets in my way. My hair is 20 inches long and reaches my mid-back, but I'm tired of it and want to cut it all of short. But I don't have the guts. I have sat in the chair a few times, prepared to do it, but I always ask for a trim instead. How do I just get over my fear and do it?
hairlover99 hairlover99 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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Just come to me and I will do it quickly

talk to someone until you are comfortable with them who is sensitive to how you feel so you can make it a good experience. eventually give them permission to take control of it for you when you're ready...

Very easy: invite a hairdresser over to your place, talk about the style before and when he comes he does the job. No time for second thoughts, just do it. If you object at that time, he knows he has to go on.

Hope this helps!

I would be interested in giving you a short haircut for free. My suggestion to you would be let's meet and talk and no pressure if you don't feel comfortable going short one shot- we will do it gradually.
Please let me know if you are interested.

I does your boy friend like your hair? Just ask him, it might make it easier to have it cut

I'm single at the moment

Its a huge thing to do, so i dont think you should rush it! one day soner or later it will happen :)

If you sit in my chair it would no longer be your decision.......MMMMMMM

I would love to see you in Person with your long hair. Just trim it. Write to DominantFriendly. Don