it hurts so badly to know the one you still love is doing the same things you used to do with someone else.

that's my lastest main depression.

knowing someone i love and care about so much. does not feel the same way he used to feel about me

hayleymeike hayleymeike
18-21, F
4 Responses Apr 10, 2007

It is all unnatural, the modern (sick) world tells us to become detached and that it is "psycho" to care so much but we are actually meant to mate for life like wolves so these feelings are the very valid feelings of a deep and real psychological injury.

My situation isn't the same but the resuts are. It kills me not knowing if she is with someone else or flirting with someone else.<br />
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He already moved on. take your time and you will to. Don't rush into anything nd once your ready you will know. You don't want to be with someone while still missing him because it may just put off the emotion for other times in your life. You don't want him ruining your relationship with someone else. Take your time and good luck!

I completely understand ... i think thats why i look at his myspace page so much .. i canceled mine after many failed attempts at relationships .. but he also lives in iowa and i live in ohio .. if you ever need to talk ill try and help i wont be able to take away the pain but i can try and help you cope

I know how that feels. My ex and I broke up 4 months ago and he didn't waste anytime. He has another woman living with him already. I miss him too and I hate to think about all the fun things he is doing with his new girlfriend. It still hurts even though all my friends tell me I should be over it by now. We were together for 2 1/2 years and engaged! I still sometimes sit here and wonder if he might call or even stop by but of course he doesn't. I am getting used to it though and I am in better shape than I was 2 months ago. I was so depressed and such a basket case. It does get better though I should tell you. The pain will start to ease up and you won't feel as sad as you are right now so hang in there! I know it is hard but the hardest part for me has been accepting that he is not coming back and that I have to move on. I try to stay busy reading and going out with friends. That seems to help me get through it.